Women, would you date a man with breasts?

Question

At 9 I was diagnosed witha condition called GYNAECOMASTIA. This is when boys grow breasts.

This condition absolutely killed me psychologically. I had to grow up for almost 10 years with breasts. I got teased in school, and I especially despised Physical education.

As you can probably guess, i had no chance of attracting a girlfriend, and inevitably I became very shy around girls.

All the doctors that I saw told me that it was more common amongst boys than I thought, but they also all insisted that I could not have an operation to remove the breast tissue untill I turned 18.

At 18 I had the operation to get them removed, but I was left with scars on my chest.

I am now 25, and I'm going out with a girl. I haven't told her about it yet, and I dont want her to get freaked out when she sees my scars. What should I say?

Ladies, would you think of a guy with chest scars, would it freak you out. could you see yourself with a guy with scars on chest.

What should I tell her

Answer 1

I'm badly scarred - for different reasons - and I've found that when a partner is happy to undress me, they're keen enough not to be put off.

I would mention to her that you've had surgery; up to you how much detail you provide at this stage, I guess.

Answer 2

I'd just be honest with her - if she likes you, it won't bother her.

I'd never be put of a guy just becuase he has scars - they make someone interesting. They don't bother me at all.

I'm sorry you had such a hard time growing up, and I hope you can over come your worries about your scars. I'm sure you will as you sound like a really strong guy.

Answer 3

tell her that you got them in the war