I love this girl wit whom ive been for 3 years..she is scared of her family..i will die if i dont get her..i have not spoken to my family also abt this..someone pls help..give a genunine advice..Every moment witout her seems so deadly for me..ive been also having these string headaches due to this..one more thing i wanna know..if somethin happens and if i don get her ill really lose it..are there chances for me to become mentally ill for the rest of my life??Im too scared
2007-01-01 18:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't say how old you and she are. You also don't say why you're afraid to tell your respective parents.
Need more info dude.
2007-01-01 18:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask her 2 tell her family and if she really loves you, she will. If not today, someday it has to be done. See if she is like this let it be, you atleast pluck up the courage and takeyour parents to her house and talk it like an arranged marrige type. If guy is good and girl is good, no parents will say no ok. Ya, they may get annoyed a bit n wont talk for a week, but remember children are their children. Let them think on it. If girl or guy is good and capable, what's wrong? any sensible parents will think like tht and i really do hope things go well. Dont think about mentally ill and all silly things like that, time changes everything in life, just take the right action according to the circumstances and what happens is fate. But be sure to try. Never give up. Be strong. All depends on the mind friend. take care, wish u the best of luck. May u suceed in your love.
2007-01-02 03:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by mansi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just that ur mentally sick right now....don't mind my wrods but u only think...does any body or can anybody lose life if he doesn't get anything or anyone....its God who decides when n who has to die.....i can understand ur state cuz i was also sailing in the smae boat few days back,n im still in that boat,but what i think is ,,,,i've come alone n i've to leave this world alone....so does it matter if anything or anybody is out of our reach....God must have decided something much netter for u thats y hes not giving her to u....accept it as God's decision...have faith in him,he always does best....All the best God love u...GOd bless u!
2007-01-02 03:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, ok, ok...HOLD ON. =) I'm kinda confused. I wanna help, but I would have to know why she's afraid of her family. Is she not allowed to be with you?? Why aren't you guys together? Email me if you like, I'll try to help after you explain.
2007-01-02 03:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help now!
2007-01-02 03:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
voodoid seems to have got it right...more info.
but anyway you won't go mad.
speak to your family...you have to. and then speak to her family. but gather up your courage and first speak to yours
2007-01-02 03:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by praavita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are such a loyal lover:)
2007-01-02 03:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by apple-licious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is something to be scared about??
2007-01-02 03:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by dOniTz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, what?
2007-01-02 03:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋