2007-01-01 18:51:25 · 20 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's something that you have to lie about - then yes it's cheating. If it's something that you are open and honest about - then no.
2007-01-01 18:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zether just owned you all. This is a stupid question and from some of the responses above by the ladies, there are stupid ladies out there.
Fact #1 - Your guy has been to a strip club when he was with you.
Fact #2 - You know about it or not based on how much of a psycho you are. "I forbid him to go!" Yeah, your boy has probably contracted something from one of the strippers with that attitude. "I go with him!" Good answer!
Fact #3 - Ladies, your not angels you fantasize also about the macho men you see. Don't front!
This is not cheating. This is not some way you look at it. Cheating is the act of being intimate in someway with someone other then your partner. Going to a strip club does not count!
2007-01-02 04:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by AWOL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is doing something that you don't want your boyfriend/girlfriend to find out. If your guy goes to the strip club behind your back without telling you, then that is cheating.
2007-01-02 03:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by jason j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the idea, but I wouldn't consider it cheating. So long as there isn't any lapdances or private room stuff goin on. I think the biggest concern would be why he would go there in the first place-after all, it's a lot of money just to come home all hot and bothered.
2007-01-02 03:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by laurarae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not technically cheating, but I find it disrespectful for a guy to go when he is in a relationship.
To me, it's asking for trouble hanging out in strip clubs getting drunk. It is certainly not the mature thing to do.
Unless it's a one time bachelor party thing...then maybe.
2007-01-02 02:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, thats a personal question. It's cheating if you think it is. I would say no, but is kissing someone on the cheek cheating? I would say no. How bought a peck on the lips, Id still say no. It's all how you interpret it. If you're that concerened, let him know, but in a civil way. Just remember to communicate..
2007-01-02 02:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by eldeeder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is it cheating on your diet if you look at a mcdonalds menu?
is it cheating on your AA club if you drive by a bar?
is it cheating on a test if you memorize the material while studying the night before?
i could go on and on and on
but its a silly question
2007-01-02 03:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not technically cheating unless he actually does something with the stripper then i would say yes that would be a lot of cheating
2007-01-02 02:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by superstuddly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is just for the eyes only, it maybe fair to say not cheating, its just exploring, invite ur girl sometimes in order to appreciate and maybe do the same on ur honeymoon?
2007-01-02 02:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lyndajoie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really cheating, but it will -- guaranteed -- make your girl feel inadequate and less-than-attractive to you. So don't act shocked when she bursts into tears.
2007-01-02 02:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋