Okay, so we started going out about a year ago. I really liked him. We couldn't get enough of each other. I remember our first kiss,date, pretty mush everything. Then, one day after school, my friend (she was actually trusworthy then) called me and told me he was cheating on me. So I broke up with him. I found out he never did. People told me i broke his heart. Then a few months later, after missing him forever, I asked him out. Then on a date, I thought I can't do this... so I had to brake up with him again. My friend said she would do it because it was so hard last time. Then another guy asked me out about an hour after. I said yes, because I was messed up and I thought it would make me forget. Turns out my friend never broke up with him for me. Everybody thought I cheated on him on purpose. I felt horrible as if I broke his heart again. Now its been about 5 months and I really want him back and I think he still likes me. WHAT SHOULD I DO ?!?!? I FEEL LIKE ONE BIG MESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 18:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it's okay. This is still fixable =) Don't cry. lol. Now you know never to let friends do things for you. It's always better to do it yourself but that's for next time. For now, go to the guy and tell him what you just said here but in a way that's more appropiate to say it to him. Apologize and say that you still love him, that all you did was because you were being stupid, (you have to blame everything on yourself when your'e apologizing.) apologize for letting a rumor get to your head and for not trusting him. He will be hurt, so dont think he'll just forget it in one second. If he asks you for time, give him time. Make sure to tell him what really happened and promise never to let it happen again. =D
I hope the best for you.
2007-01-01 18:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to do is shut up, you're an idiot. You're in high school. He is cheating on you, he is also in high school. He has a small penis and even smaller sense of self-confidence. Your bra size probably matches your grades (somewhere in the C to D range). Chillax and wait until you get into college to be a bimbo. It's so much more fun freshman year when you actually live with the drama.
2007-01-02 02:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by The Ween 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ! Hannah. I am not sure that wheather ur guy likes u or not. But I think u should talk to him and ofcourse to ur friend too. Ask him wheather he is anoyed from u and if yes then ask why. Tell him why u break up ur friendship. And ask ur friend that who told her that he is cheating on u. I think ur friend also likes that guy. May be for that reason she lie. well if needed contact me my e-mail id is zoya17892@yahoo.co.in. Hope this will hepl u.
2007-01-02 03:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Fatima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop listening and acting without investigating, before you make a move make sure you have researched well, you act on impulse without even thinking rationally , i cant help but think that you deserve what is happening right now because you are not careful and you dont think for yourself, you let others push you around
get some self esteem and next time decide with your own mind
2007-01-02 02:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your ex bf and clear it up with him..>However I sure hope you learned a lesson not to be to hasty in a decision over gossip. EVEN if it is your best friend. n
2007-01-02 02:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new friend because she has apparently TRIED to get between you.
2007-01-02 02:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should say sorry and ask him out again. and plzz decide whether u want to be with each other or not.
2007-01-02 02:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by flabourgasting b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna talk email me at kane011592@yahoo.com
2007-01-02 03:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋