my friend said that this guy whom i have a crush on is insecure because he isn't good looking and have a face full of pimples..he looks really unfriendly and they say the reason he's like this because he didn't want other people to judge him and so he's giving this kind of unfriendly and aloof appearance..i passed him a note so i can start being friends with me but it's been 2 days and he hasn't gotten back..i guess he might be too shock cause i think no one has ever done that or maybe he might think i'm playing a prank on him..do u think he's being insecure or something else?when he got the note..he looked quite shocked and just looked at me and immediately went on to read the note without saying thank you! i think he went to tell his friends about it..
i'm a pretty confident girl and my friends said i'm sweet and sophisticated..so what's the problem here?
2007-01-01 18:48:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you need to take a more direct approach rather than passing notes. You don't want to communicate through a middle man. I would just go right up to him and let him know that you would like to start hanging out and see how he responds to you. Try to start up conversations and see how he reacts to you, read his body language...
Good luck!
2007-01-01 18:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try showing that you care by doing things like asking him to stop for coffee or pop - I get an impression that you might still be in school so ask him for help on a school subject, Just be friendly. the fact that he has pimples and seems unfriendly may be a way of protecting his feelings and perhaps by being a friend he will change - get something to help with the pimples and be friendlier to you and everyone else as well.
2007-01-02 02:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on being nice to him, he probably thinks you are just teasing him and having a great laugh about it with your friends. Also, ask him for help with stuff, like asking to borrow a pen or a piece of paper. Look him in the eye and keep being patient with him, he is obviously very shy and has been teased by girls before.
2007-01-02 02:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he might be shocked cuz generally guys run after girls,or show intrest in them by making their first attempt.n as u told he considers himself to be ugly,he must be shocked tht a girl is passing a note to him n showing any interest....if he doesnt reply back,u better talkt o him straight.All the best!God bless!
2007-01-02 02:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just insecure give him some time sweety!
2007-01-02 02:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋