i know this girl at my highschool.im nice to her and sweet on myspace only.so how can i get a girl to like me
please answer..thanks =]
2007-01-01 18:45:51 · 31 answers · asked by Rad Chad. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her and eh...
2007-01-01 18:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience i would have to say that you just be yourself and act liek youve known her for a while. dont get all nervous or anything like that or she will probably find that as a turn off. just ask her whats shes doing for the weekend or something and if she wants to hang out with you and only you. dont bring anyone else along,maybe go see a movie or something where there are some people around but make sure she knows she is with you.
2007-01-02 03:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by superstuddly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "get" a girl to like you any more than a girl can "get" you to like her. Sometimes you just do or don't. What you can do is you can be yourself and be a gentleman. Girls don't like it when guys put on acts anymore than a guy would. Just think, what characteristics would you like in a girl?
BTW, very important, why not go up to her and tell her you like her? One of two things will happen. She will tell you she is not interested and then you can move on and quit wondering. Or two, she will like you too. It is really better to just ask and know than to worry about it. Of course you are nervous, of course you are shy, thing is you are still the guy and many girls will wait for the guy to make the first move. If you don't ask her, you will always wonder, "What if?"
2007-01-02 02:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by BookLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah becareful there with the "nice" and "sweet" stuff. Because before you know it you will be in her "friend/buddy zone". What's more important is CONFIDENCE. Think about it, guys in general like girls to be sweet and nice. But most girls like a guy to be sure of himself and have that mystique about him, some rough edgeness as well. Now don't get confused with being a jerk or creep/perv. In terms of fictional movie character, think that Russell Crowe's Gladiator, or James Bond. Maybe throw in a few of Brad Pitt's. Trust me it's not about being someone you're not because most will see right through that. Again it's going to be your CONFIDENCE.
2007-01-02 02:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should ask her out i mean if your nice and sweet why would she say no? If you dont then youll never know if she likes you and wants to go out with you. Just be yourself and think about things to say. Make conversation and make her laugh. Girls love a guy with a sense of humor
2007-01-02 02:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ey dude girl problems?!?!?! best thing to do, lay back be yourself, not your guy friends yourself but like meeting a chick yourself, u know nothing perverted or out of the question. I've had my trail and errors, but u can't make someone like you, if she interenst shell go for it , if she's not, then theres always Soda at heb.
2007-01-02 02:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by alavistaven2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to mow her lawn for a while, then use your money to pay her to pretend to be your girlfriend at school for a week. At the end of the week, you'll become super popular at school and treat this girl like crap. She will get pissed and expose you for the fraud you are. You'll go back to mowing her lawn, but she'll come to realize she loves you and you'll ride off into the sunset with her wearing your cowboy hat.
2007-01-02 02:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force her to like you. be yourself. learn this lesson as soon as you can: if she doesn't like you for who you really are, then she isn't worth the effort. you'll only end up wasting your time and will end up looking pretty pathetic, which probably will end up giving the next girl you like a bad impression of you. meaning she probably wont like you in return.
you don't have to be a bad boy to get a girl to like you, you just absolutely cannot seem extremely eager to please. she may think you're just desperate and that she is a last resort, which will kill her self confidence. would you want to be with a girl who makes you feel like a last resort?
2007-01-02 02:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by bigwoodenhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being athletic and having money helps....but since that never worked for me being sincere and a sense of humor helps. Hey, if it doesn'twork out with her there are litrally millions of other girls out there. You just think, "she'sthe only one", but there are lots of others. If it doesn't workout with her,look elsewhere.
2007-01-02 02:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by KM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do good things for people. Get noticed by standing out from the crowd. Don't try to impress her directly. If she is poular, ignore her. Popular girls are always fascinated by those that ignore them.
2007-01-02 02:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by Smoky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some handstands, or something else to convey a sense of humor. Maybe go over and sing her a serenade. If you can make her laugh, you're half-way there, at least.
2007-01-02 02:48:39 · answer #11 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋