okay, so i've liked this guy for a while and he's always flirting with me and making it seem like he wants to be with me and i've asked him plenty of times if he liked me and he's always said no but continues to flirt and carry on. (i kno, tsk tsk) i even had my cousin pretend to play matchmaker but that only resulted in a confused response from him (he said he didn't kno whether or not he liked me) but that was a while ago. i don't want to chase him away by asking him again but its really driving me nuts cuz i like him a lot, please help me...
2007-01-01 18:42:36 · 17 answers · asked by skittles06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well go for it, if it works it works. If not its not made to be.
2007-01-01 18:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by beave00720002000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre trying too hard, and falling too hard too.
guys dont want it when women ask them directly or when women dont even atleast play hard to get
you seem to easy, not a challenge
if he did not say he likes you then dont push it
why sell yourself short
why do that to yourself
is he even worthy of the love you are offering him
why dont you keep things natural
i know you want him, but that does not necessarily mean that he will give in and feel the same way if you try all your very best
men are flirts, they flirt all the time, but in the end it does not mean anything
do something worthwhile stop chasing this guy he is not worth it, he does not even see your efforts, before you love another man , love yourself first
2007-01-01 18:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, I get confused alot, i do that with some girls, andi have no idea why sometimes. Sometimes i don't even notice that i'm flirting with them, you could be taking everything the wrong way, he could do that with everyone else, that's what i kinda did. Of course i'm noticing things, im' not 14 anymore lolyes it drives you nuts but he's probably honestly not into you, heprobabl sees u as a friend. as much as it drives u nuts!
2007-01-01 18:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by alavistaven2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him that much, give it time but meanwhile flirt a little here and there. Just pretend like you have no clue that he might just happen to like you. He'll get a little frustrated at the fact that you won't make a move and if he's not the shy type, he'll come around to it. =D
2007-01-01 18:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be forward with him and let him know how you feel. The only way he will know is if you tell him.
If he says that he doesn't like you, then you need to make it clear to him that he gave off the wrong signals and it confused you.
Make sure that he knows that you value your friendship, and that you hope you both can still be friends.
2007-01-01 18:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by ofxaxrevolution984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him, stop chasing him. Ignore him for some time. Dont respond to his flirting, and never ask him if he likes you or not.You will surely get him. All the best.
2007-01-01 18:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation...tell him that u like him, that is what i am going to do. hey it might end up that he likes u, but if he doesn't then u know the truth and u don't have to waste ure time on a guy that doesn't even like u. but he might like u. u wont know unless u tell him that u like him.
2007-01-01 18:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honsetly, He knows you like him, and thats a total turnoff for a guy. Do something to make him think you are losing intrest, but dont make it obvious... Guys love a challenge
2007-01-01 18:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by eldeeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk there are lots more fish in the sea as they say don't play games because that's what he is doing Ignore him and stop waiting around if he wants you let him do the running
2007-01-01 18:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by zzumette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If your a preteen, then he might think he's more popular then you... or maybe his friends don't think your hot, or maybe something about you bugs him but his friends like you alot.
If your a bit older, he probably doesn't like you, or likes somebody else more, but enjoys the attention.
2007-01-01 18:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by emando16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You play hard to get for awhile and I promise he will come to his senses. He likes to play mind games. Are you sure you want that?
2007-01-01 18:45:30 · answer #11 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋