im 18 im deciding to move with my boyfriend we had being together for 1 year do you think is a good idea?

Answer 1

I think if your excited about it then it's a good idea. If you have any reservations about it then wait. Congrats! You'll be Fine! '-)

Answer 2

When I was your age, I moved in with my boyfriend that I had been with for just about the same amount of time. To say the least, we were only together about 6 months before we broke up after I moved in with him.Things change when you move in together and its just no the same anymore. I recently lived with my current boyfriend for about 3 months while I was searching for a nice but cheap apartment that I would be able to live in. When I found it, I moved out and got my own place. Although he stays with me a lot, its not like living with him and I have my own space and what not.

But every person is different, but if you are doing it just to be away from your parents I don't think it is a good idea, unless there is something majorly dysfunctional at your parents house.

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

I'm sure you have heard this before, but 18 is pretty young and living with a partner is soo serious. Are the two of you intending to marry? Are you moving in together because of finances? If there isn't a pressing reason (finances, pregnancy, or the plans to be married or stay together longterm), I say take your time. What's the rush. We as young women have so much to learn about ourselves on our own, so why not take that time. If its a long term relationship then he shouldn't be going anywhere anytime soon anyway. Give yourself 7yrs (not kidding) or until you decide to marry.

Answer 4

I don't understand why so many people are against it. I would say it's a good idea IF the two of you can afford to look after yourselves. If you are both working and living as ADULTS paying your own way, there's nothing wrong with it. If you are planning on moving in with him and his parents that's a whole different story. If you are looking after your self nobody can tell you anything different and at 18 you are adults.
I supported myself from the age of 15 and so by the time I was your age, I had a good job, qualifications and enough money to support myself. I lived with my boyfriend and we both lived as adults with real responsibilities and bills to pay. If this is the idea that you are talking about... go for it. If it's just two kids pretending to be grown ups, think again. Maturity has nothing to do with age and everything to do with responsibilities. If you are mature in this sense, nothing is wrong with living how you choose.

Answer 5

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!

You are so young, you need to live on your own first, without the pressures of "playin house" with some guy you've only known for a year out of 18....

Trust me, it's not all smiles and laughter when you're washin his dirty dishes every day or wipin the piss offa the toilet seat....

And I'm not tryin to sound like a hater, but I've been there done that, just seriously make sure you do what's best for you and the plans you want for your life...be independant and you'll grow faster...

Answer 6

Well if you have a choice then suggest to spend or move in only weekend with him first, maybe for the period of 3 to 6 months.

You never know seeing a person and living with a person are 2 different things.

Good Luck

Answer 7

You are going to do what you want no matter what anyone says on here and you know that deep down. You don't need anyones approval, I will say that I was w/ my bf for 3 years when we moved in together and he drove me freaking insane and we broke up. Living with someone is huge and you will learn all sorts of new things that bug the heck out of you! Just be careful in whatever you do and be prepared for the worst.

Answer 8

nope - if you want to live together - why not get married?

will you give him all the benefits, without the commitment?

Had a friend 39 yrs old with his 38 yr old gf
they had lived together for 6 years - then she moved out - why?
in that state - you are considered married after 7 years of
living together - come to find out - she had 2 other lovers before him who also got dumped after being used

don't be used, sweetie

Answer 9

Depends what you want. If you want a proposal one day then it is a very bad idea. Why would he ask you to marry him if you are already a wife?

If you just want a relationship for a little while with the freedom to act like husband and wife then do it. An important thing to recognise is that there isn't many statistics that would suggest your relationship is expected to last after you move in out of wedlock..

Answer 10

I think it is a bad Idea but to each his/her own.

You should get your own place know what it is like to be on your own. Get to know who you are first before you invite someone in your life full time. People change, and when you're in a relationship everything is cool but when you live with someone a lot of things get involve, business(i.e., lack of money & bills) so our relationship turns into something more than what we expected. Then you truly dont know what kind of person he is to live with. Its different when someone visits you then when you stay with them.

My personal advice and answer is get your own apt. and try that if you still want him to be with you all the time then ask him to move in with you.

Answer 11

i think that at the age of 18, you still have alot to figure out about yourself. you may be convinced you have your self completely figured out. i did when i was 18, im 21 now and im going through a time where i think i still have alot to learn.
take your time. a year is a long time, but moving in togther might bring on alot of added stress that you just dont need right now.