My girlfriend and I are in a fight. She blames me of cheating (sleeping around, kissing other girls, ect.) I have cough her cheating many times in the past and have let it fly what shoud I do?
2007-01-01 18:33:30 · 21 answers · asked by jazjadaz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so everyone knows I have been true and I put that!!!
2007-01-01 18:46:11 · update #1
Brittany V who posted an answer is her just so you know.
2007-01-01 18:50:59 · update #2
I think you should leve her because the fact that you cheated hun indactes you n her arent workin and you can find better trust me I know imma cheater :P lol anyways yea I would leave but don't tell what you have done it will only make things worse
2007-01-01 18:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from someone who's been through the same problem MANY, and I do mean MANY times...
she blames you for cheating on her because she's cheating on you...
she's accusing you because she can't trust herself...
she's trying to act like she's the one who's going to get hurt because she knows she's hurting you, and she knows how it would hurt her if you were screwing around on her...
I hate to say it, but the best thing you can do is to end the relationship... once a cheater, always a cheater, and I guarantee you she's not going to change... she won't stop accusing you, she'll always seem insecure (because she is, which is why she cheats in the first place... cheaters are attention cravers), and she wont quit fooling around on you... it may be hard to let her go if you've got strong feelings for her, but if you want to save yourself a lot of heartbreak down the road, you need to get rid of her... she'll never treat you how you deserve, and you'll never be happy... I guarantee you, you can find a much better girl out there who wont need a bunch of other men in her life...
2007-01-01 18:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! Come on if you seen her cheating in the past, it's most likely that she'll cheat in the future! You should've broke up with her the first time you caught her cheating on you. But you can't dwell on the mistakes you've made in the past, just don't make anymore mistakes in the future. Dump her! Immediately!
2007-01-01 18:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural and acceptable for girls to cheat. Just like in the animal kingdom the males have to strut their stuff to attractd the females. Women need attention and excitement. They need to get that from where ever they can. If you are inadequate it is alright for her to get what she needs from other sources.
It is completely unacceptable for a man to cheat. If they care about a womans feelings they will make it obvious that they are dedicated to that girl. It will heighten her sense of value.
Sorry but this is one thing in life that what is good for the goose is not good for the gander.
2007-01-01 18:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is such a lack of trust in your relationship, and she's already cheated, it's time to move on. She may be blaming you (assuming you haven't cheated) for her own wrong doing. Either way, no relationship can thrive if there is no trust.
2007-01-01 18:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by lastonealive@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her whats her problem that shes blaming constantly on u about allt these things...what has she seen or observed about u so that that is making her to think this way....if shes just in a habbit of doing this then leave her,search for soembody suitable
2007-01-01 18:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you always bring up the past then she will start saying things to try to make you feel bad too. Us girls don't like when guys bring up the past it makes us feel so bad. And we fight back so I think you shouldn't brake up with her and just not bring up the past anymore.
2007-01-01 18:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've actually caught her so many times then wtf...
When are ppl on yahoo gonna grab a damn brain cell and nourish the hell out of it so smarts can be passed around??....
2007-01-01 18:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships and cheating just don't work. you need to break up with her and tell her to go on her merry way. if you don't, she'll just keep on doing it and expecting you to put up with it. and that's just not right. she is showing absolutely no respect for herself or for you. trust me, you will be better off without this girl.
Take care, and best wishes.
2007-01-01 18:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! Move on and try to have respect for the next one maybe it will last longer
2007-01-01 18:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Zip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋