every time i mess up i get my head biten off. like for example these :
i gave my kid candy in the moring, my exgf : what the hell is your problem your gonna get him hyper !
i i look down at a girl whos talking to me, her : you bastard stop looking down my shirt !
im 6'8 it kinda hard not to look down when a gril is talking to me.
i forget what a gril is talking about : you jackass you never pay attention !
i get pissed off when my friend wont give me any of her chocolate : you spoild brat go get your own !
why does this happen to me ?
2007-01-01 18:26:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get new friends
2007-01-01 18:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can give you the answer in a nutshell: You're too nice a guy! If your response to the bad treatment by these rude women was something simple and calm along the lines of: "What's wrong with you...are you angry at me? If you can't speak to me in a normal tone of voice, then go back up, before you make me angry..." They would stop this activity almost immediately. Don't forget, not only are you a man, but you're a very LARGE man and the intimidation factor probably has them overcompensating. It's called "false bravado" and they have nothing to back it up, remember that. You get what you accept, nothing more, nothing less...
2007-01-01 18:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the way you and your women friends converse. Like sometimes I talk harshly with my friends when everything is fine (not seriously, but joking). THen when i am angry my harsh tongue becomes even harsh. It has to do with how you set the boundaries in your friendships. Do you ever talk to them sort of harshly, but not intentionly? maybe that's what's happening here. I don't tolerate or use foul language, so my friends dare not use it when talking to me.
2007-01-01 18:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is happening because she is a total B@#$*!!!
Don't let it bother you at all. She needs to grow up a little and be more respectful to people. Read a book to improve your vocabulary so you can talk to her above her level. maybe she will stop being such a low life or maybe not but if she don't, try not to associate yourself with her anymore!
2007-01-01 18:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by I made this! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and be as good natured about it as possible... I am ashamed to admit that we women are very tempermental creatures, and will, if given the opportunity, snap at you. Just smile and nod, she'll get tired of instigating fights when you refuse to participate in them.
2007-01-01 18:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are hormonal and cranky. Not much you can do. Chances are nothing will get them to treat you better. This coming from a woman...
2007-01-01 18:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're hanging out with praying mantises. I think they bite men's heads off. Otherwise, I don't know. The problem seems to be with the woman [women] you're with, to me. I don't know..
2007-01-01 18:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Maziar S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to give kids some energy in the morning.
you have to look in her eyes first before you get to the boob area.
most men don't remember what we say.
you don't sound spoiled you just wanted some chocolate.
2007-01-01 18:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are chicken that's what.at 6'8" you have the world at your feet,stop acting like a dwarf and claim your rightful place.
2007-01-01 18:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girl is the problem, not you.
2007-01-01 18:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Heather <33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have bad taste in women sorry about your luck
2007-01-01 18:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by Booger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋