Ok, heres the story.on friday he came home and told me he just came back from the local bar and had a beer before he came home. I was upset because he took my car and had a beer in his system while driving. He wasnt drunk or anything but I was still upset. He got mad at me and said that he has his own life and will go there whenever he wants. I took a nap and later in the evening I woke up and suggested that we go to the same bar. I said OK I will meet you there, so I got ready and got there about an hour later. While I was walking inside I became INFURIATED becuase he was at the bar and talking to another woman. I just snapped, and as I got between them I said "who the f--- is this?" He was drunk at then and I was just so mad. I told him to go home with his new girlfriend, and preceded to tell him that I would rip the dead rat off the top of his head, and I grabbed his shirt. He started talking smack, saying I was psycho, etc, and he got the tab so he could leave.I wanted to look at..
2007-01-01 18:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the bill to see what he ordered but he grabbed it before me. I finally got the bill and saw that there was a drink ordered for the woman, so I just snapped and slapped him real hard across the face. Then he all of a sudden punched me. and then shoved me, he started to leave and then a few guys walked out behind him and threatened to punch him. The cops got called and took pics of my face, etc etc, and then arrested him at home(he walked) what kinda hurts is that my dad bailed him out of jail... it was stupid I know but what do I do now??
2007-01-01 18:23:27 · update #1
Kick him to a curb. Any guy who hits a woman is a loser. And your dad is a loser for bailing him out, too. If he hit you once he'll do it again. Don't be a statistic.
2007-01-01 18:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie Girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, it seems like a case of everybody over reacting. Just because he is talking to another woman doesn't give you the right to cause a scene in public. Also, you should have never resorted to violance, I don't care what he was doing. Granted, he should have NEVER punched you, but, you antagonized him to his limits. My advice? You two need to break up, permanently, he sounds like scum and you sound like you could use some social skills and boundaries.
2007-01-01 18:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should have both been charged with domestic violence. In the state of Georgia both of you would have gone to jail. His problem was he was DRUNK and went stupid after you hit him, but what is your problem? You were sober.......perhaps you need to seek anger management therapy.
2007-01-01 18:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by slick chik 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all there is nothing wrong with someone buying a drink and talking to a woman. she could of been a regular customer and he knew her and their just friends. you could of walk to where they were and introduce yourself to her. saying hi my name is. and i see you met my boyfriend. and you could of prevent what has happened next. and you shouldn't of slapped him, and it was wrong for him to punch you in the face. but instead of doing the right thing, you went in there acting like your crazy. only one that can tell you to leave him is you.
2007-01-01 18:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow. I would have knocked the **** out of you too, if you hit me. I hate it when girls do that crap. If you wanna hit like a man, then take a punch like a man!
He's as better off without you as you may be without him!
2007-01-01 18:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok its all mess. stop acting like a overpossessive girlfriend. At leaste ask him who the woman was. Get back to him and talk to him.He can prove his innocence.Hold your calm.
2007-01-01 18:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
can you say psycho because you just are.. so what.. he was talking to another woman at the bar, it doesn't mean that he was ******** her.. I think that you should leave him so he can have the opportunity to find a woman that is mentally stable :) :) :)
2007-01-01 18:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ok well for one thing, do you even know if he was flirting or just talking. Some ppl do like to talk to the opposite sex sometimes. Don't jump to conclusions... ask him, don't walk up and act crazy!
2007-01-01 18:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
So, lets get this straight, you are the one attacking your b/f but he is charged with domestic violence?
How does that work?
Are you just making excuses for him hitting you?
You both sound dysfunctional as all hell.
You do not need this kind of drama...move on.
And please do not have kids with this man.
2007-01-01 18:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
honestly i'd leave him, people like that never change. it only gets worse unless they get help. most of them say u r the one who needs help not them.
2007-01-01 18:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by thatsspoiledangel2u 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋