I am an attractive guy that is understanding and open minded. I don't behave like a jerk and always treat people with the respect that they deserve. I have not been all that good at finding girls to date but when I do the relationship usally last for a long time and has always ended with us being friends. Since I have been promoted in my job I have had many diffrent girls hit on me. The only reason I think they are is because of the amount of money I make now. What do you think?
2007-01-01 18:13:26 · 21 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Money is a big attraction for a lot of women, but you sound like you have good qualities, that women would love in a man.,..but when a woman is young, she goes for looks, and usually bad guy types..then after she gets kicked real good she then looks for the qualities you have.
2007-01-01 18:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
- girls want someone who can take care of them. There are some girls that wouldnt mind the opposit but most want a guy who the can have a stable life with. One strong indicator in this would of that is, OMG! MONEY!
- Do the girls that have been hitting on you recently know you or your position. If not maybe it is because you carry yourself differently because of your promotion. But that could be so for if they do know you. Some girls may take notice of a guy but then like something smacking them in the head, they notice you getting a promotion and think "Hmm, good guy, just got a promotion which means he is stable and does good work. More money means he can do more things." again with the women thinking of being taken care of. They could love you or whatnot but if you are a deadbeat, they wont waste time with you and move onto another man that they could fall in love with.
2007-01-01 18:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by rezruf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if I cared about how much a man earned, I wouldn't be so broke. Instead I'm in love... but i'm still broke. Money doesn't matter to me personally and I would happily live in a tent to be with the man I love but it seems that I am a bit of a romantic freak in this sense and more and more, women seem to care a LOT about money.
An American friend of mine shocked me when he once told me that women in his town openly ask men how much money they make. Australian women would find that very wrong to ask such a question so I guess it depends where you live to some extent and what's acceptable.
2007-01-01 18:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some do. In order for you not to start dating a girl who wants you just for your money, 1) don't talk about how much money you make, 2) don't support her (atleast not in the beginning) with your money, 3) don't spend too much money on her in the beginning. If you happen to get stuck dating a girl who is only after your money, it could end up being a huge mess.
2007-01-01 18:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Whit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably sending out a little bit of an "I can offer you security" vibe. Money is important to a degree. Most women, if they stop to think about it, want a man who can take care of himself and provide for a future family. A big turn off is having to work two jobs, because he doesn't feel like getting one. You may also be facing an older and wiser crowd who are a little more aggressive when it comes to a potential soul-mate, like yourself.
2007-01-01 18:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are some types of women that feel money is the # 1 on there list of priorities, You don't want that type of woman, because what ever you make is not going to be enough. You sound like a good man with good morals, so don't settle with less then that,Best wishes.
2007-01-01 18:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as I'm concerned money isn't important if need be I could work to supplement the household income. But I do think a lot of younger women today look at the paycheck. Women have become to materialistic.
2007-01-01 18:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women are gold-diggers. Does she have a job? If not, keep an eye on her. She might be looking for money. Find a girl who can hold her own without a man and then you'll know she doesn't want you for your money.
2007-01-01 18:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably right. What will happen when or if you don't make the money you make now. Chances are that you will lose the broad. Money changes everything. Look for someone genuine. True love has no conditions. Money isn't everything, it just paves the way nicely. In the end it really doesn't matter. Honest!!
2007-01-01 18:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well , i can tell u that some woman care about nth except how much money a man makes !! They would do anything , and i mean it by anything , for money..
What should u do ?? well, use ur inner instincts to find the true love
2007-01-01 18:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋