Well heres the story: There is a guy that I like and he likes me, and we get along really well. But my friends don't like him for me, they say that he has "changed" me and that he doesn'ttreat me good. He hasn'tdone anything to hurt me, so I wonder why they say that. There is another uy who likes me and my friends want me to be with him, and not *M*. I do kind of like *J* but I like *M* more because we talk more and he isn't shy around me and talk about ANYTHING, while with *J* its really akeward, beacuse he is really shy around me, *M* thinks that a love triangle is forming, and he may be right, but I don't want that to happen! I would feel like such a horrible person if one, or both of the guys got hurt! I don't know what to do! What would you do in my situation? I desperatly need help!!
2007-01-01 18:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by ηєvєrmorє 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to your heart
when hes callin 4 u
Micheal(or whatever M's name is) seems better. Forget ur friends. they should love you for u, not ur bf
2007-01-01 18:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pin your friends down and see in what way they think he has changed you. Perhaps he may be taking up too much of your time and not leaving time for your friends even to the point of not wanting you to have them as friends. Or does he take you for granted and they don't like that? the fact that he thinks there is a love triangle forming rather than that you are torn between two people seems a little odd to me. It may even be that they know his history with other girls and are basing thier opinion upon that, how he treated another girl he went out with.
2007-01-01 18:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friends say something wrong with that guy it must be something wrong with him and they are being around the bush about it and don't want to tell you for some reason (it have to be good a reason) just go for the guy you can see your self in a good relationship with
2007-01-01 18:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by krazykia1p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should date *J*!! i mean it could b true luv....and if he talks 2 u more, then it'll b more fun, and it wont b so awkward together. my best friend dated this guy, but they neva had anything 2 talk about,so big surprise they broke up...u dont want that 2 happen do u? follow ur heart! and be nice 2 *J* :)
2007-01-01 18:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by cutie317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart. The person who makes you laugh, cry and the person you dream about at night...
2007-01-01 18:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M must be a really awesome guy. Dude consider yourself lucky that he noticed you. Man, i wish i was that guy. haha.
2007-01-01 18:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by The One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? ur friends can see what u dont cause thy are removed from the situation.
if they are friends u can trust then listen.
love ya kelly!
2007-01-01 18:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with "M". Your opinion is the only one that counts.
2007-01-01 18:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna talk email me at kane011592@yahoo.com
talk to me there
2007-01-01 19:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut feelings...... n
2007-01-01 18:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋