for some reason when i meet a guy and i think we can be friends,it falls apart because if we go out and do something fun and at the end of the night if they dont get what they want then thats is no more friendship why do men think like that?
2007-01-01 18:07:34 · 29 answers · asked by Boo! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A girl can have a guy as friends too, I have a couple but not as much as female friends. Maybe you should think really well if you'd like to keep this guy as a friend or if you're willing to date him. It doesn't work out all the time, but if you feel like there's something more to your friendship go for it.
2007-01-01 18:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Are you very cute or pretty? If yes then you will never find a friend that is a guy nor a girl that is a lez except for a guy that is a homo. If no then all you'll have is friends (you ugly bastard). Men don't think - they only feel, that's why it's like that. You want a man that doesn't like you when you're pretty is like asking to be friends with a guy that is a homo. Or you can only date girls - except for the lez. If i were you i'd get my booty out there and show them what they're dreaming of. Then take all thier cash like the smart ones do, like the strippers at the club. Once you get all that lovely cash, go buy yourself something big and nice like a home with a 100inch TV. Good luck and god will bless you. Now can i be your pimp?
2007-01-02 02:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by God 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the way that men are wired honey. Unless they are a complete jerk, don't take too much offense from it. Yes a girl can have male friends and never have a sexual relationship with them but almost all of the time, a man will act on it should he be given the chance. I've had male friends for over 20 years that I've never slept with but I do know that if I ever gave them the opportunity to have sex with me, they would jump at it, even if it's not necessarily what they want out of our friendship. You will weed the good ones out from the bad ones and find a few good true male friends in life. It can happen.
2007-01-02 02:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, girls can't have guys as regular friends. Any girl who thinks she has a friendship with a guy who doesn't want to get with her either secretly does, or is gay. There are very, very, very few exceptions to this rule. Every guy who makes "friends" with a girl pretty much just wants to be more than friends eventually. It may be hard to accept, but that's just the way things seem. If you have time, there's an interesting piece about it, called the Ladder Theory on www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html. It is a little vulgar, but it pretty much explains everything that goes on in guys + girls minds. Hope that helps! ^_^
2007-01-02 02:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by chrizzy2k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a few friends who are just guys, and honestly, it works out alot better if you start the friendship talking online or texting first. That way, you can complain to them about other guys, and talk about who your interested in, and let them know that you just want to be friends. Then, when you go out, they aren't expecting anything.
Eventually, it seems like the guy either falls for you or you fall for them. I've only got one guy friend that is just a friend with no weirdness.
2007-01-02 02:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by emando16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all guys do. Heck I dont expect any from any woman unless she tells me, or we have had a good enough relationship to considure it. Like with a friend that I love, I told her so, not for sex or anything, but so that we could start going out. She only wants to think of me as a friend cause she doesnt like relationship (rape victem) and also wants to concentrate on college. We're still friends after my confession, and she takes the time to go out and have fun with me. I'm not pulling any romantic dates on her and such (unless a sea world or disneyland trip counts) in respect to her wishes. However I still slightly hope that someday she could accept me as more than a friend. But I'm not putting all my faith in it even though I am trying for it. I would rather always have her as a friend because she is such a wonderful person than ruin it just cause I want her to fall in love with me. Which is her own choice.
2007-01-02 03:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be clear and make sure that he understand that all you want from him is friendship and nothing else. It's hard to believe but guys have feeling and emotion and being close to a lady bring that affection out . Yes, you can be fried with him as long as he understand that you only want friendship.
2007-01-02 02:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by junior's700 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont give any hints to him. Talk and behave in a friendly but keep-your-distance manner.All men are the same. You have to make them feel that friendship is friendship and nothing beyond.
2007-01-02 02:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Want to be friends with guys? Then meet some gay men, they make the most awesome friends, and you honestly don't have to worry about them falling in love with you.
2007-01-02 02:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chemistry, DNA, testosterone...
If you want a male friend look for a gay guy.
Friends share like ideas,sports, thoughts, etc.
Males and females do not think alike.
Its just the way it is and always will be...
Besides those are the most dreaded words you can tell a guy,"Lets just be friends!"
2007-01-02 02:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by Alex Freaking Trebek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋