I was the door mat of all doormats.I am afraid to trust. Now I am afraid of such things as escalators, heights, elevators, being in public, dressing wrong, feeling like a w-h-o-r-e, as that was my nick mane. I don't care if you know who I am- I am writing to say to you please, don't brings anyone down by saying they are stupid to be in this situation- and certainly don't ask the question, "why do you stay. Either help her.him get help and point out the good in her or him. - If you blow your better than attitude all over a person like me, you are just destroying the heart of that person more. It isn't your job to fix others, but don't act frustrated and berate them, that is cruel. Pass it on.
2007-01-01 18:03:05 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shelley, if you are THAT concerned over people saying things that you don't like or agree with, I'm afraid the world is going to eat you up. Try to not take everything so personally and literally. If you or anyone asks questions in a public forum such as this, you must be ready to take the good with the bad. Not everyone will tell you what you want to hear. In fact, some people dig telling you exactly the opposite. Learn to live with it or you will end up becoming very upset over lots of stuff that really doesn't affect you unless you allow it to.
2007-01-01 18:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what age you are or what age your lover is. If you both love each other then things are cool. But there's no reason why you should all of a sudden be afraid of things. You need to get rid of your anxiety feelings. And don't ever feel like your a whore. If you know in your heart that you are in a good relationship with a good person then don't worry about anything. Let go of being afraid. Just be happy that your in love with a nice person and you feel like your in a good position to be with them.
2007-01-01 18:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shelley, let me get this straight, you think by dating an older guy makes you a whore? You are sadly mistaken sweetie! My husband and I havebeen married for over four years now and you will nver guess how old he is? My husband is 41 and I will soon be 27. Honey you cannot base love upon numbers, but what you can base it upon is whether or not you two are compatible and if you love each other with all your heart and soul and communicate to one another. That is what true love is all about and we have a three and a half year old son together.
2007-01-01 20:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what the question is, but consider this:
Your only obligation as a member of humanity is to yourself, ultimately. Do what YOU want to do! The only requirement is that you do WHATEVER It is YOU want to do from a place of LOVE. NEVER Intentionally Harm someone.
But be dang sure that you arent harming YOURSELF blindly either.......and that takes much care and thought and observation. So take time to test the mettle of this relationship. Love will endure all things.....
2007-01-02 20:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by kahameopah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to be said that someone acting stupid should be told about it because often times they don't see it themselves and sometimes people need to be told to leave and ect... people ask questions for a reason and people who answer them should have enough balls to be up front and honest, not to be cruel but to possibly help and that also means to often say things that people don't wanna hear to help them confront their own issues at hand :) :) :)
2007-01-01 18:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you know you gonna get hurt again.I hope it works out for you.Your past is hunting you.Move way and start over with a new descent start.If you respect yourself,other will too.
2007-01-01 18:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the headline of your question best, all the rest eventhough true, forget it, concentrate on the hard and the good you got now, and make up for lost time, good luck
2007-01-01 18:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I understood almost every single word on there and still all I got was gibberish. You want to order a doormat for your elevator?
2007-01-01 18:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-01 18:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋