2007-01-01 17:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2007-01-08 14:27:47 · update #1
Listen to what others have to say- actually listen. Try to figure out what they mean, not just the technical meaning of the noises coming out of their mouth. Be paitent for your turn to talk- nothing is more irritating in a conversation then someone who is just waiting for you to shut up. If you don't know what someone is talking about, ask. Think before you talk. Give it the one-two-three before you reply- that will give you time to think and it keeps the conversation casual. Contribute to what the last person said before you change the subject, even if it is something as simple as 'Thats pretty cool' or 'I didn't know that'. Don't talk for the sake of talking- if you have nothing to contribute, ask meaningful questions. Meaningful questions are questions that take more then a 'yes' or 'no' answer. Example- instead of saying 'are you going out this weekend?', say 'what are you doing this weekend?'. And never answer your own questions unless the other person asks. Don't be afraid of a comfortable silence- don't babble just so it won't be quiet. Be positive, not negitive. That will make the other person more comfortable, make you more comfotable, and it will actually improve the mood. Don't be afraid to end the conversation if you get bored. The key is- just relax, think before you speak, and listen carefully. And practice practice practice! Try striking up a conversation with a cashier or someone that is standing behind you in a line. That way you get practice without a huge investment. Good luck!
2007-01-01 18:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the art of conversation is one of the most important skills you will develop. You will make more money and be happier if you take some time to learn even a little bit about the basics of communication.
This is the old classic book on the subject. It is simple and easy to read and gives you all you need for a good start.
http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671723650/sr=1-1/qid=1167720774/ref=pd_bbs_1/103-6775029-7693443?ie=UTF8&s=books
even if you pick up three tips and apply them you will be far ahead of everyone else.
2007-01-02 01:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by stillness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is both art and science to conversation. The science part is small, like using hi-tech telephone, mobile etc. The art part is most important, here you have to carefully formulate your needs and converse with the person and make the person accept your proposal favourably and give favourable reply. We are transacting every minute of the day with everyone around us including our family members, lovers, teachers, traders etc. and most of it is done by conversation.
2007-01-02 01:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, rather than explain something I don't understand, I recommend you read some great books. My favorites are The Great Gatspy and Catcher in the Rye, in terms of conversational prose.
2007-01-02 01:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by STFU Dude 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be your self. That is the art.
Be well read. That is the science.
Practice with patience. That is the magic.
2007-01-02 01:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by J. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called linguistics.
2007-01-02 01:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by N/A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen well
2007-01-02 01:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋