I need guidence bad. I feel like Job right now...depressed. I'm 23, the only christian in my home and I know the devil's attacking but I need some encouragment, some scripture or something. My family dosn't really care for me, their too busy in their lives. I have 37 dollars in the bank, it's difficult finding a job, i'm overqualified for every job I apply for but still get no reply back. I pray, I tithe, man I feel like God's so far from me. Like nothing is going my way. The small church I attend, it seems like everyone's against me bcuz im not like them. I know God's right here by me, but man does it hurt when there isnt any money and bills are due and there isnt any food in the fridge. I understand that with victory theres pain, but wow, I dont have anyone to talk to for guidence. I read the bible, but I need someone to help in the walk. All my friends are worldly, I already discussed what my church did, and that's all i have. I stay home all day, no $ to do anything...anyone around
2007-01-01 17:39:13 · 34 answers · asked by Dave 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I thank each and everyone of you who had a word of encouragment. I read every single reply and was touched by every one of them, tears ruunning down my face on alot of them. I pray that God continue to bless you guys everyday. I wish we can all pray right now together and intercede for one another. Thanks guys...GBYou
2007-01-01 18:30:43 · update #1
First and foremost, the man upstairs will never turn his back on you. We all know that God has a plan for each and everyone of us. The problem comes when we get stuck in that I WANT IT NOW mode. The overall plan is like a big puzzle and you may have to go through a rough time to get your blessing, but if you weather the storm your blessing will come. As far as being able to talk and get support, there are a number of christian chat rooms on the web and there is always someone there that is willing to share information and experiences to help uplift your situation. It's not that God is far from you, he is never that! God may be wanting you to reach out for others and find others in need of friendship. Believe me when I say that your situation is not an accident, your situation has a plan attatched. It may toke you some time to figure it out, but when you do, you'll sit up and thank the Lord that you went through what you went through. The Lord moves in mysterious ways and I am a firm believer that the Lord uses us mere mortals as angels from time to time. It's strange, and if anyone told me a few years back that I would be singing the praises of Jesus Christ and speaking to others about how awesome his love is for us, I would have said that they were crazy. But guess what, here I am after a long day of work, at 1 a.m. on Yahoo! Answers when I should be sleeping. Something made me get on my PC and that something is watching over us. Hang in there. If he brought you to it, he'll bring you through it. I am going to pray for you and your situation before I go to sleep. God Bless You.
2007-01-01 18:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tony J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what others have said about finding another church and that God will let you know when you've found the right one. It will feel like home. I am so thankful for my church. They truly are my family. I can depend on them for support, guidance, and encouragement. I know that if I were ever to be in a financial crisis, they would be the first to offer help - I wouldn't even have to ask.
I would recommend looking for a church that has weekly "life groups" or Bible study groups. These are wonderful places to connect with other Christians and to grow in your spiritual walk. Also, they are great places to find support and encouragement when you're going through trials. Where do you live? Maybe I can help you locate a different church.
In the meantime, you can find support and encouragement from other Christians online at http://forums.christianity.com/
Finding a job isn't easy. Believe me, I know! Especially if you live in a small town without many opportunities. A few years ago, I was unemployed for many, many months (probably close to a year) before God blessed me with the job I have now. It wasn't my ideal job or one that I love, but it does pay well and there is some purpose to my being here. So, don't give up! God hasn't forgotten about you! You're in my prayers.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
2007-01-01 18:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian. It sounds like you are genuienly depressed. Depression is like an illness. It is most often an imbalance of brain chemistry. See a doctor. If you go to a small church.....(sorry about my opinion) sometimes then can be a bit dogmatic and narrow. I would suggest a larger, perhaps non denominational church.
You are stuck in a negative energy mode. Stop reading or thinknig you are like Job and read more victorious scripture.
Get outside of yourself and go out and help others....maybe volenteer at a soup kitchen or something. It is in giving that we recieve.
You are as your thoughts are. Find the Joy inj the Lord.
You are in a non active mode. Think of this.....you are in a small boat when a hole begins on taking on water.......you pray to God that you won't sink and drown. Now is that what you should do?
Nope......you take the bucket and bail out the water and you pray for help......You see God can help us more when we are part of the solution or at least in motion.
Also if all your friends are worldly- you definatly need to make some new friends. Sometimes in life we are without friends. Other times we are blessed with many friends.
2007-01-01 17:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still tithing when you can't even buy food? Is that what your god really wants?
I seriously doubt your family really doesn't care, they probably just don't know how to handle your depression. In the church you go to, surely you can talk to your minister. If not, you need to find a different church. Most church's have a counselor or group set up for people with depression.
Don't let anyone tell you "You're not looking hard enough" for a job. That's bull. It took me seven months to find my job for the same reason you're finding it so hard: over-qualification (McDonald's and WalMart don't want to hire a college grad) and lack of jobs in my field (for every job that opens, 20 people just as qualified applied). But you'll find something eventually.
I'm not a Christian, but I understand what you're going through.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 17:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First let me tell you that you are not alone. Not only is God with you, but I am with you, along with others in God's family. I've been in alot of situations where I felt completely and totally alone. Sometimes it was hard to even tell whether God was there or not. But the truth is, he is always there. Sometimes his voice can be clear and loud but other times it can be as soft as a whisper. I applaud you for being strong and being able to stand up for God in your home, where you don't have the christian support that some of us take for granted. Your church family really should be not only accepting of you, but also love you for who you are and for who God makes you. Is there anyone at your church you could take to? Once I was in a situation at church where I felt like an outcast...I found another church to go to and immediatly felt loved. Perhaps you should look around and research other churches? I know that it's hard right now, but be patient. God does not forget us...ever. I'll pray for you and I hope this helps. Feel free to email me if you have any questions.
2007-01-01 17:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by CuriosityKilledtheCat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard. It is going to be. The devil is always on the prowl. But you can rebuke him. Stay in your bible, stand fast in your faith. God is by your side.
Job hunting, try the job service. They will be more helpful in finding something that fits your qualifications than just looking for something in the paper.
No food in the fridge, your town should have a food bank or Salvation Army. Both will give you food to last a few days and the Salvation Army will also help you spiritualy.
If you do not feel your spiritual needs are being met at your church, call another one. It's okay to speak to a pastor at another church to discuss things. You don't have to actually attend that church for someone else to lead you, quide you and pray for you.
God Bless you.
2007-01-01 17:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you got a lot of rude answers. Job went through a lot, but that doesn't mean we have to go through all he went through. I won't offer scripture, but I can offer you hope. There are times when I feel far away from God (and incidentally, Billy Graham has felt the same way at times), and other times when I feel very near Him. I stay home most of the day; I don't have much money, and some of my family don't understand me, and certainly don't accept that I'm a christian. At the same time, they accept me as their brother. I would advise that you find another church who accepts you as you are, and keep in touch with those who understand what you're going through. And feel free to contact me--if you can. I'm not sure how this works, but you can always email me at boo1229@earthlink.net. Just put on the subject line Christian in trouble--Dave. And by the way, there have been few churches that accepted me the way I am.
2007-01-01 17:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by honest_funny_charlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many scriptures to give us born again Christians encouragement, but I don't know where to begin - lol. If you want to email me, post a message here or give me your email address. I'll give you my Yahoo messenger ID and we can go from there. I'm more than willing to help you - just let me know. :D Keep the chin up, ok? I'm out of work myself, but looking hard for a job, though it's not easy. Remember this, too, that God gives us trials and tribulations to test our faith. Sure, it's not easy, but remember that God would not test us beyond what we are able to handle, so hang in there, ok? My faith is being tested now as well. I've been out of work since late August and still out of work. I have bills to pay also and am already worried about losing my car when my unemployment runs out, which is the end of Feb. Doesn't look good right now, but God will come through - just keep the faith and keep praying. God tells us to 'Pray without ceasing', so keep that in mind, too. God shows no respect of persons (showing partiality). He is impartial because He knows that we are sinners just like everyone else in the world, though we are spiritually transformed by His grace and mercy through salvation in Christ. Our past, present and future sins are forgiven us, so keep that in mind also. Let me know if you want to keep in touch with me. Thanks. May God bless you. Happy New Year to you!
2007-01-01 17:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will get through this time in your life. We have all been there before at some point in our lives. I am going to pray for you an Angel to come your way. God bless! I am also going to pray for (TOMMY R) at the same time. Imagine being where he is and you should start feeling better already.I would much rather have the Lord in my corner at a time like this. Take care
2007-01-01 17:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! I'm sorry for your misfortune. I've had hard times and all that I can tell you is pray like crazy. Every time that I'm down I listen to Christian music and usually sing so much that I end up crying. Maybe a change of scenery would be good for you. I also like to take a drive and again listen to Christian music or just talk out loud to God and ask Him for help and guidance!
Just remember you'll get through it. God is there and He is putting you through this to make you a better person!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-01 17:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋