There's this guy where i work that i admire. I admire him for his dedication at work. It started w/ an email from me saying hi but it ended w/ a dialogue from him saying i wanna do it w/ you. This is not really a good idea because this guy has a wife and 2 kids. He told me a lot of things like he's not happy w/ his wife and he wants me to make him happy. He said all of this when he text me but eah time we meet at work, he's just very civil. The only reason i know why he's doing this is because all the people at work know he's married but there's this 1 girl that is always by his side. I asked him about it but he just says they're bestfriends. I couldn't believe what he told me because the girl is also married.
Now, I'm not asking for some advise whether i should get on a relationship w/ him cos i know it's very impossible cos i'm not that dumb.
2007-01-01 17:16:37 · 17 answers · asked by reza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would cut it short with him,tell him to work on his relationship at home bc youve decided to look for someone to spend your time with.he should get the pic.chances are hes already messin around with his friend,trust me you dont want to be the third women in his life,that puts you last on his list of importantcy
2007-01-01 17:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is bad news! What is there to admire about a married man with children who propositions you? Obviously, he does this sort of thing with other women. Forget about this creep and concentrate on your job.
2007-01-02 01:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by CreoleSista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even read the rest of your explanation after you wrote " wife and 2 kids". That right there is a big fat NO! Back off before you hurt yourself or someone else.
2007-01-02 01:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe he is serious. I read a psychology book that said that men sometimes associate sex with comfort (like we women want to cuddle for security and romance and comfort, they want to do it and they get the same thing emotionally as we would with the non-sex stuff). So, it could be that.
Or he could be incredibly horny. Guys are like that, too, LOL.
Either way, though, i think he is serious.
2007-01-02 01:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lissa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy is a tail-chaser and he wants your tail. He wants a little somethin'somethin' on the side. Expect to be used and dumped. If he cheats on his wife - he'll move on from you too.
2007-01-02 01:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AVOID like the plague!...heartache and problems..Do Not Go There. He sounds like he has no respect for you...the old 'the wife doesn't understand me' syndrome! He is after one thing and one thing only! Self respect my dear!
Happy new Year
2007-01-02 01:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cockneyrebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you asking then?
Whether he's serious? Well, he's a cheater, isn't he? Sure he's serious. Maybe his so-called "best friend" is getting a bit boring and he's looking for the next sucker who will help him cheat on his wife.
2007-01-02 01:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why are you asking? text the guy back and tell him people in hell want ice water too but that doesnt mean they will get it.
tell him that youve shown the messages to your boss and be sure that you do. that way there will be a record of his behavior, it isnt your job to make him happy, he a slimeball, get his number blocked from your phone,
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2007-01-02 01:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnot because this girl that is always with him is prolly having an affair with him to so yuo should just leave him be because hes a player!!!!!!
2007-01-02 01:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by megan c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋