Hi again,,, my online guy for nearing 3 months refuse to show his self. He has seen me almost everyday on cam ,,yet he find all the excuses for not sending a pic r showing himself. First he sent a pic ,,,then he said its not his pic now hes saying I will see him on the day of reckoning,,,, we chatt on the phone so I know hes a guy,,,but why/what is he hiding,,,help me to think and understand him please,,,,,
We spend hours most days chatting online,,,what is his problem??????
2007-01-01 16:53:07 · 15 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is either a) extremely shy, he thinks you will be dissapointed with his looks when he doesn't have that great bathroom light he had on that picture.
b) not as he appeared in the picture, it is his older brother or a random stranger or something
Either way, try to meet him in a public place in the daytime asap, to see what the deal is, if you do in fact want to meet.
Word of warning, though, internet relationships are always doomed
2007-01-01 16:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe he has split identity... one in reality and one in chat. That happens online.... Be careful. If hes hiding behind his pc, chances arepretty good that hes not trustworthy. Find a new chat buddy. And for God's sake, BE CAREFUL.
2007-01-02 01:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant be open and honest with you from the start of why he can't/won't show you what he really looks like, You need to advise him you wont meet! i'd be very wary! I had that once turned out to be very elderly person! i'd say web cam so you know who it is! Also you gave some one you dont know your phone #? this guy could run it and be watching your house for all you know please be careful!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-02 01:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by matrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you to check his picture against those on "America's Most Wanted." This is something that you might want to take into account. Maybe he is too busy ringing the bells at Notre Dame to get on cam. SANCTUARY!!
2007-01-02 01:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Biff Stew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't who he claims to be.
Maybe he is actually a girl.
Maybe he is a lot older, a lot younger, etc.
Or maybe he's just shy.
Could be anything, ya know.
2007-01-02 00:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by bandd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there might be many problems but i can say as he find excuses... there might be differece in ur ages.. or he might be way older than he told u ... thats y he dont wana show u .. or may be he has some1 else too .. he dont wana show himself up.............
2007-01-02 00:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he feels insecure, he's scared that you might not like him and ignore him in the future.
2007-01-02 00:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask what is his problem, but I ask what is your problem?Why are you spending so much time with someone whom you do not know?
2007-01-02 01:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by CreoleSista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either ugly,a woman, older or younger than what he says. Tell him you want to see him or it is OVER!
2007-01-02 00:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by G-FER 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could be chatting with anyone...he is obviously lying and he is obviously not who he says he is....I would be very careful of this one...infact, I would stop all contact.....be careful and good luck
2007-01-02 00:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋