I like this girl alot, and she told me she likes me too. But she doesnt want a boyfriend? We have kissed and stuff but she still says she doesnt want a boyfriend. Any Advice? what should i do
2007-01-01 16:37:40 · 17 answers · asked by chris_piaseczny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her alone. You don't know her feelings OR what her reasons are for not wanting a boyfriend. Maybe she's bisexual but she's got a girlfriend now, and she cannot date anyone else. Maybe she just doesn't want anything serious because she likes her freedom... Just back off. She'll come to you if she wants to, but don't keep coming around.
2007-01-01 16:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the words she is saying. If you cannot do that, you are only concerned about what you want and that does not make for a good boyfriend. She may want a boyfriend but not YOU for a boyfriend. Many people think they are entitled to have whoever THEY want when they want the. You are not entitled to have her just because you want it to be so.
Don't let her give you a double message. Bust her on it. Say, "You kiss me but you don't want a boyfriend" "In my book, kissing means we are in a relationship, does it mean that for you?" Then you will have her answer about the kissing. She may just want someone to kiss that she knows is crushin' on her and easy to control or use. If you are cool with that, keep kissing, but she does not want you. Also, some guys think if they hang in there for long enough that the girl will wake up one day and realize her "friend" would make a perfect boyfriend. Usually does not happen, especially if she is treating you badly now by sending double messages. Maybe she does not want to be seen with you in public. Do you really want that?
2007-01-01 16:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really up to you what you should do do you enjoy the friendship that you have or would you rather move on only you can answer that question is there someone else that you may be interested in? if so move on and continue to be just friends if not hang on in there and see what time will bring
2007-01-01 16:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by bonestra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her. If she doesn't want a boyfriend then don't push for it. Let things happen naturally.
2007-01-01 16:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm,
She needs to quit playing that part!!
Either she just wants a side kick, or she is trying to screw with your head!
2007-01-01 16:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want a commitment.. she jst want frndz wid favours.... by doing all this she is not answerable 2 u for anything...i hope u understnd watever im saying.
2007-01-01 16:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some girls might just think it's too soon. But don't worry, if she denies you at the end, just move on! there's too many girls in the world!!!! :D
2007-01-01 16:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ qdgurrrl ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um let her be. She probably doesn't want any commitments right now. Give her what she wants and if it's meant to be then it will be.
2007-01-01 16:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by freeme529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means... I want a boyfriend, just not you. Sorry!
2007-01-01 16:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by Marmontos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you make her fall in love with you....that is better than being u r girlfriend........but the question is Do u know how to make a girl fall in love with you?
2007-01-01 17:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋