His wife doesn't want us coming around. It's not like we want to see her anyway. We don't go to his house. He comes to see us. She's afraid that we will bother her precious little baby and wants to be sure that legal action can be taken if we even come near them. I think she sucks. I hate her. I don't know why dad is going along with this. What do you think?
2007-01-01 16:28:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your dad is a jerk for going along wit this. but for some reason parents are so self centered anymore. My mom did the same **** wit her ex. me and my sister got thrown out a couple times cause of him. good luck.
2007-01-01 16:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's very hard to have an opinion about this because I'm sure the whole story is not known but I would suggest that you change your attitude quick if you care at all about your dad and want to have a continual relationship with him then find a way to only speak with him for now. Your dad just may be very important in both yours and your sister's lives. Try very hard to be respectful so that you will have him there for you. On the other hand, if he does not try to be with you two then I would suggest that you let him know how you feel and allow him to realize that "he" is the one that should be reaching out to you and your sister. If he is the wrong one he will certainly hurt worse than you in the long run.
2007-01-01 16:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he comes to see you anyway, then why are you even worried about it. And isn't this baby your little brother or sister...that must hurt your feelings if it is? Something must have happened between you guys for her to not want you and your sister there. It seems like there is a little bit more to the story...so it is hard to answer this question, but I guess if your dad comes to your house and you are still able to see him, then that is a good thing... right?
2007-01-01 16:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by jessteal2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PERHAPS if you tried to be CIVIL to the woman for once .. and talk to her like a reasonable person would that would go a VERY LONG WAY in healing this rift ....
YOUR father is STILL coming to see you -- and that is saying a LOT about his character and the fact that he DOES Care about you and your sister. YOU need to talk to him calmly about your concerns about him ... the way you and your sister perceive the new wife, and ASK your father for his thoughts on all of this.
PS -- I've read the other questions you have posted here -- make sure that your own actions/behaviors are not concentrating on the GREEDY Grab for property over establishing/keeping a relationship with your Father and your half-sister. I would worry too with this impending family disaster staring me in the face .... and when it IMPLODES -- everyone is going to be SERIOUSLY emotionally, financially, and in other ways Harmed.
2007-01-01 18:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
danmarbl hit it on the head here. READ HER OTHER POSTS BEFORE ANSWERING HER QUESTION HERE!!!
This chick is mean. All of her other posts are about getting rid of her step-mom and hating her little sister. How can anyone of you stand up for her? She isnt' trying to make nice with anyone. She doesn't want a relationship with her father. She wants her step-mom to go away and will do anything to make that happen. Don't feed into her nonsense.
Girl, you have some serious mental issues that need to be checked out before you do something really stupid. I don't blame your step-mom for wanting to serve you with papers. You're dangerous.
2007-01-01 16:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay you're part of your father's life, and if his wife can't accept you and your sister, then there are going to be some problems! Just because she doesn't like you, doesn't mean the baby has to not like you. YOU are more his blood then she is his! Talk to him, let him know that this isn't what you and your sister want and I am sure that when you guys talk back to her, you guys get introuble, so don't do that. But let her know that if she doesn't accept you and your sister that there are going to be problems. Talk about it with a teacher or guidence consuleor. Good luck!
2007-01-01 16:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by skibunny92709 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, the wife wants all the attention and dont want daddy to give u all any.
It is best to just lay low and dont bother either of them.
He will eventually apologize for all this and u will be a happy family again.
U need to get along with your dads new wife and think more positive so u all can be a happy family.
Be nice is the best key in this situation.
2007-01-01 16:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
technically you're think to placed on the hijab round boys, so if there have been boys there between her friends then it truly is in all likelihood why your dad were given indignant. inspite of the indisputable fact that, even if that change into the case, he might want to not have hit her. Its extra effective to sort of tell her to go back straight away search for suggestion from with him in deepest so he can clarify to her whats incorrect. Hitting her for not donning the hijab might want to have a adverse result on her and make her carry resentment to donning it contained in the destiny even as she now not has to stay along with your father.
2016-12-01 10:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your Dad is wrong to put anyone before his children and his wife is a very insecure person (she doesn't deserve the title of woman as far as I'm concerned) to feel threatened by his children. He is probably only going along with it to keep her happy and so he won't have to hear her mouth. I know you might be tempted to tell him when he comes to see you that you don't want him to come over again, but I hope you won't do that, after all he is your Dad and one of these days he'll probably wake up and regret what he has allowed her to do.
2007-01-01 16:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-01-01 16:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by knowlegeSeeker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have any of you read the other questions posted by this chick? She's evil and doesn't deserve to see her father, her half-sibling or her step-mom.
Sorry, chick, you are one evil little girl who doesn't deserve anything from anyone. Looks like dad has finally goten smart.
2007-01-01 16:41:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋