I was having a wonderful New Years Day with my daughter until a freeloading former friend cussed me out today because I told her she can't stay with me anymore. Ever since she left those horrible messages, I feel depressed and worthless. I don't have an appetite and I'm too tired to do anything. My New Years Resolution was to love myself but now this is going to be harder to accomplish because of this incident. Any advice?
2007-01-01 16:27:58 · 7 answers · asked by junjkol 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
To make your 2007 the best that you can....live one day at a time.
Continue to spend wonderful days with your daughter and whatever you do, don't regret the things you did....you obviously had a reason for asking this former freeloading friend to leave, you shouldn't beat yourself up for it, after all if you didn't think it was wrong, what she was doing, you would not have had asked her to leave. Therefore, liv e your life one day at a time and don't regret the decisions you make, unless they were done under extreme and impulsive reactions. Good Luck to you and best wishes.
2007-01-01 16:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i don't see what is the problem there. You can still have and make the most out of this new year, just forget what ever happen with your former freeloading friend. You proabaly made the right choose, and since you have already said it, well then there really is not any turning back. So keep your new years resoulution and love yourself, and your family, and just keep in mind you were doing this for yourself as well as your daughter. It is only a day into the new year, so don't give up now. Keep your new years resolution like you planned, cause you could keep putting it off. You will find that you that you will keep putting it aside, year after year. Then you will not ever keep that resolution, and you really need to cause likeing and loving yourself is really important. For you and your family and the rest of your life. So I think that would make it important enough to keep that new years resolution now, and not later, or maybe never.
2007-01-01 16:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter is old enough to look after herself and you ask her to leave that is quite in order. You have your own life to live and asking your daughter to live hers is reasonable. If you know in your heart that you did the right thing that is all that matters. There will always be busybodies to poke their noses into somebody's business. I have noticed that my wife and I who have been married for 40 years plus always get the best advice how to make our marriage work from people who have mucked up their own. I tell them to butt out. If they don't come back it makes me happy. They are a cancer to my Soul. As for 2007 get interested in something, set yourself a target and stick to it. And if you don't make it 100% don't be hard on yourself. You have given it your best shot.
2007-01-01 16:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let someone else ruin your day.. don't let them ruin your year. be thankful everyday that you are alive and that you have a daughter! some people in this world can't have children...take it as a life lesson and keep on trucking..friends who would do that to you aren't really your friends to begin with. Love yourself for who you are the h@ll with what everyone else thinks. if you go through life thinking about what someone else thinks you will have a short life from grieving about it. smile because the sun shines, laugh when its raining (you can't do work outside), cry tears of joy, and be thankful for all you do have.
2007-01-01 16:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by cutefirechick1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't let this toxic person make you feel badly about yourself. She's not your friend if she's hurting you like she is right now. Can you block her number?
I think you're to be admired for standing up for yourself. A lot of people just sit there and feel miserable while they're being taken advantage of - not you! Good for you.
2007-01-01 16:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by stoofadoofa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"When you change the way you look at things...the things you look at change". --Wayne Dyer.
-It takes time........don't be so darn Hard on yourself. Little by little, try to talk to yourself compassionately and look at things from a different view.
It will happen...have Faith in God!
2007-01-01 16:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live life to the fullest
2007-01-01 16:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by 100%Lovable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋