Not to get on a soap box or be whining here, but, I feel like such a total loser all the time. What the heck?!
2007-01-01 16:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by ginarene71 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
find something that you like to do and do it. you are worth just as much as anyone else and don't let anyone tell you different.
2007-01-01 16:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Halloween was right. If you compare yourself to anyone you'll find something they are better at than you. You'll always find a way to make yourself look bad if you have that in your head. Write down everything that's good about yourself. Stop the comparisons. What if you made 10 million dollars a year. Then you started to compare yourself to Bill Gates. You'd be doing incredibly well and still feel inadequate. The media only exposes us to the elite. The best looking, richest and most successful. The one tenth of one percent. People who have attained the unattainable. If you expect that from yourself and will be content with nothing less you will always be disappointed. I'll bet that you're okay. Take a personal inventory and remind yourself every day of all of your good qualities. Take care.
2007-01-01 17:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called low self esteem too. Somewhere in your life you have been treated like u were inadequae, and told so time and time again. So thus you start to believe it, and that is why you feel that way. So you have low self esteem, and you must start feel like you are as good as the other person, and that you like yourself, and you love yourself. Then you will start to overcome that feeling of being inadequace. You will find that you can do any thing that you put your mind too, at least most of the time.
And that you are not a loser, and you have not ever been a loser. You need to change that negative way of looking at yourself to a positative way, and each time you find yourself puting yourself down, you need to correct that to a positive though of yourself , you may need a therapist for a while, cause hearing positive things about yourself is not going to be easy to take at first, and it will not be easy for you to really believe it at first, so you are going to need someone else that don't know you, and can give you that possitive input. For me that was a really hard thing for me to think about myself or listen to anyone say about me. So i know it does work, but it may take some time. I wish i could wave a magic wand or have a magic pill to give out, but i don't , nor does anyone else, so you are in for some really hard work, so don't give up, it is well worth it.
2007-01-01 17:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that all the time. I think its because no matter how good you get in anything you do, there are always going to be people who do things a little worse and a little better than you, but I think we tend to only pay attention to the things people do better than us, and it makes us feel crappy. But just remember that if tomorrow you woke up and were suddenly 100 times better than you are now, there will always be people that can still do it even better. Just try not to worry about it, because it doesn't really matter :o)
2007-01-01 16:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stop believing in urself no matter what ppl say or what you think. I felt like a total loser too few years back and then i changed my attitude towards everything. I didn't care what ppl thought of me and did what i liked. (Not trying to brag here) I now have fame and all what i want. So just keep faith in yourself. Consider urself ur own best frnd.
2007-01-01 16:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by mystryguy_18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do things that are creative, Learn/take Martial Arts,
musical instrument - flute - violin - oboe - clarinet, tennis, chess,
ballet, jazz ballet. Go to the theater, concerts, musicals, ballets.
Visit museums, travel. DO SOMETHING!
Join the Air Force and still do all of the above while getting a nice pay check!
2007-01-01 16:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try involving yourself in volunteer work. It is rewarding not only to yourself but to others. When we help others who are in need not only do they feel better but we feel better about ourselves. If nothing try being a mentor. It will help someone who may other wise not get help and you will be concentrating on helping them do better and not so much on yourself.
2007-01-01 16:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to compare yourself to others in a negative light. You are who you are, and you should love that!
2007-01-01 16:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Halloween 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your dr for meds it helps me A'lot!
2007-01-01 16:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋