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Most of my stress is caused by my parents. thay have no fashion senses.they always insist on me wearing religous clothes and stuff. my mom is always screaming at me. school also causes me some stress. I really need someone to talk to.

2007-01-01 16:17:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

22 answers

If you don't have a close friend that you feel that you can open up to, try talking to a trustful teacher or guidance counselor. If you play any sports, talk to your coach. If you don't feel comfortable talking to any of these people, you can always e-mail me! Other than that, you may want to consider seeing a psychiatrist.

2007-01-01 16:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 2 · 2 0

Try talking to your school's guidence counselor. They may be able to give you advice. I don't know exactly what you are going through. I know when I was a child I thought my mom especially was to over protected. Now that I am a Mom myself I understand a little bit more about what she was trying to do. Even though yes, I think she was still a little over protective I know now that she was just doing what she though was best so that she could have me around for years to come. Take a look at your situation and see just what is causing the stress and also see what you can do to help reduse some of that stress on your part. Sometimes we as parents do silly or stupid things. Some of our actions are legit some of them are not. Just try and see what you can just let go with the flow and what you can let just roll off your shoulders. I promise you it will get easier then. Just remember you will understand more when you are the parent.

2007-01-01 16:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0 0

I just luck i felt like you before, i swore my parents were here just to cause me pain all the time. They didn't listen when i talked always fussing about little things that's doesn't even matter. Or i dress to skimpy, And school was pressure to be on top all the time. But i got help and i know it sounds crazy but, when i took the first step, i looked in a phone book for a consular and i talked to him and made a appointment to see him. It was weird at first but it felt good to talk to some one who understood what i was saying. And he explained that i have a chemical I'mbalance and that im not weird nor crazy and I have bipolar 2. And with the meds i can handle the everyday pressures of life. And understand why my parents act that way. And also learn how to talk to my parents in a understanding way, instead of fighting and yelling and telling them i hate them. And i was going to get better and better. It was a long hard bumpy road. But it paid off Its been One year since i cut myself and had no suicidal thought. I enjoy life now. And one day if you do try to get some therapy you see life in a better prospect.

Take care

2007-01-01 16:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by kayla w 1 · 0 0

If something as small on the grand scale of things as your parent's fashion sense is making you suicidal, you must be quite depressed. I know how hard it is when you are young to look different or not "fit in" but this should not be so severe. You need to talk to someone immediately.

Here are a few websites with 24/7 helplines and other help available. Please use one or more of them now. And if you can, talk to a school or other counsellor about these feelings. There is help and your life is too precious to lose. You can also call the Covenant House help line:Covenant House Youth Crisis Line: 1-800-999-9999, or the national hotline: 1-800-suicide(784-2433).

http://psychcentral.com/helpme.htm
http://suicidehotlines.com/
http://www.befrienders.org/ (worldwide)

Feel free to e-mail. I wish you well.

2007-01-01 16:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Seek counseling through school or church. It's normal to be emotional and even depressed sometimes if you're a teenager but suicide is a little extreme. Parents can be stressful but keep your head up because life gets better; MUCH better!
Good parents should be supportive and sometimes their decisions might not seem like they're the right ones but they may be in the long term. Then again, some parents are not good if they insult and belittle their children. Good luck!

2007-01-01 16:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by hjlite 2 · 0 0

First answer was a good one. Beyond the school counselor, have you an aunt or uncle you can trust? Another which may strike you as crazy at first would be a pastor/preacher/priest - not necessarily from your church. There are Catholic Family Centers almost everywhere, and Jewish Family centers. Both will extend help to ANYONE who asks, within their means and abilities. Good luck to you, and if I have a brilliant idea any time soon, I'll add it in here.

2007-01-01 16:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe you can talk to your grandparents, a teacher, school counselor or a good friend. If you're suicidal most of the time, you really need to get help. You could also talk to your doctor. He/she can direct your further and even get you started on anti-depressants.

Best of luck to you!♥

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2007-01-01 16:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 1 0

call kids help phone the numbers everywhere.
But you have to tell your mom your feeling
like this you have your whole life with many oppourtunitys ahead of you.
Look imagine htis you oculd fufille your dream job marry the person you love and this will happen but if you throw away your life now
youll never get it back its the most presious thing you wont be alive to share that one special moment wiht your mother(you know what im talking about those mother daughter things)
and who cares about what other people think if its your relgion then wear it yes you have a choice but if you wear it you make her proud and boom mother daughter moment,
dont do anyhting to yourself its not worth it.
Go talk to your parents asap about what your feeling. AND THEN GOTO A SICIATRISt
your not crazy but what they do is solve all your problems.

2007-01-01 16:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

go to a therapist (didn't work for me but maybe for you)
think of how worse life could be
Sit with your parents and have a non-hostile/ very calm talk and explain that as long as ur style is appropriate u should be able to express yourself.
And those r'nt things u should feel suicidal over-trust me i know what u mean, i was in a much worse situation though.
If it doesn't work try anti-depressants

2007-01-01 16:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Parents can be a hassle, but feeling suicidal, because you disagree with dress atire?? You need to talk to a professional. Suicide is never the answer. School councilor is there, but I think a suicide hotline is good. At least its anonymous.

2007-01-01 16:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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