ive recently had some problems dealing with sexual pressure. ive stopped watching pornographic material because of my girlfriend and suddenly ive had strange mood swings,inability to sleep and uua lack of pleasure in orgasms. i dont do sexual things with my girlfriend anymore and i refuse to pressure her. but the sexual pressure si driving me insane. masturbation is not effective without pornography. how can i deal with this?
2007-01-01 16:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
i really like answer 5 but she refuses to allow it.
2007-01-01 16:18:56 · update #1
if i did sexual things with her it would be different. but she recently developed a problem with that and i dont want to pressure her.
2007-01-01 16:26:03 · update #2
You can still watch your porno and masturbate if your GF isn't wanting to have sex- that's better than cheating on her and risking losing her! Your mood swings are probably hormones because you are lacking sexual satisfaction with or without a human person- continue masturbating with porno and when your GF is ready to participate again then she'll let you know!
2007-01-01 16:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seens like the only way you are going on here is your girlfriend didnot like the fact that you needed pornorgraphic material to get the pleasure , and since you said you quit watching it that that is what happen, well then she is right. you needed to be having pleasure in your orgasms cause of your relationship with her, not a book. So maybe you need to go and find out why you are having a hard time finding the pleasure you once had , but you needed the pronographic materical to get there. You really need to find out why you need to have the pronographic to get more turned on and pleasure, cause that just does not seem right, and you may find you are haveing a problem later in life that will lead to worse problems in the future. So go talk to a doctor about it, that would be the best bet.
2007-01-01 16:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to look at porn to get off? why do you have to look at porn in the first place? what is it about porn that make you happy? what things are going on btw your GF and you that make you uneasy? what kind of mood swings have you had. what is your definition of sexual pressure...is it her pressuring you?
how old are you and your GF?
some things to think about...good luck
2007-01-01 16:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your having mood swings and maby she see the other way
2007-01-01 16:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by psp07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your imagination is all the pornography you need
2007-01-01 16:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by ThunderJones12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back on the porn
2007-01-01 17:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by simquim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh. sucks to be in that position.
i made my boyfriend stop watching that and now i feel bad.
can't you just... not do it? why is it so difficult?
2007-01-01 16:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a porn addict. I am sorry. I'm not sure if they have a "porn addicts anonymous" or something like that? Who knows.....
2007-01-01 16:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by krunic_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you gotta blow off some steam try some solo time
2007-01-01 16:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by padraig 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your gf for a *******, trust me it works everytime ;D
2007-01-01 16:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋