There is this guy I have liked for a long while. He knew I liked him but didn't like me (actually, he pretty much hated me). So now it's been almost two years, and we're both alot different. My one friend talks to him sometimes and she thinks he moght like me. She says he stares at me sometimes. Also, one day she said she knew some people who liked him, and he asked if I was one of them; she said no, and he looked a little dissappointed. The thing is I don't know if she's making this up to make me feel better or if she's telling the truth. She doesn't lie, but does try to make people feel good. We also like the same things; me and my friend even saw him at a concert once.
The real problem is that he's very untalkative. We hardly ever say anything to eachother. I used to talk to him on Myspace, but he deleted his account. So do I have a shot or no?
2007-01-01 16:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by Rach 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really care about him. I was his Myspace friend but he de-friended me a few days before he deleted his account. I'm very sure he deleted, though I have no idea why.
2007-01-01 16:18:58 · update #1
you're right about people changing. and two years is definately enough time for him to decide that he no longer dislikes you! In fact he probably likes you! and he was disappointed when your friend said that you weren't one of the people who liked him! sounds like he got his feelings hurt a little. but don't feel bad, there's plenty of time to show him that you do like him. just don't rush into anything. start by talking to him and flirting just a little. don't go overboard though! just take things in baby steps. and remember, it may be hard for him to talk to you because he may think that you still look at him as the mean guy who hated you two years ago! it's hard to know what someone else is thinking and feeling without asking them! so just take it slow, and let him know that you're over the past, in case he's wondering!
and to answer your last question, yes, I think you have a shot!!!
Good Luck With Everything! and remember, you may have to do most of the talking since he's not very talkative!
2007-01-01 16:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said, I'm going to make a guess here that he never, ever hated you. What some women mistake for hatred from a guy is frustration with their own shyness, a feeling that they will never have a chance with you b/c they will never be able to think of the right thing to say. He's untalkative b/c he is sure he will say exactly the wrong thing. Very clearly he defriended on you on myspace b/c he likes you and thought you didn't like him. If he felt platonic he could never have been so offended.
2007-01-01 16:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Benji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is really up to you. are you willing to end up with a broken heart? or break his? or do you believe that he is the one out of 6.5 billion people that you will spend the rest of your life with? think about it, think about your chances, come right and ask your friend if she is telling the truth. You should be able to know when she is lying to you if she does. Make the choice, and stick to it...another thing, did he delete his account or block you from it? just something to consider. good luck ;)
2007-01-01 16:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by neener892004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...sterio type....thats what my friends called me...well here is what i would do. You see i was in the same position for 2 years....just like you...I really dont lke this girl but she likes me. What you have to do is try not catch his attention. He'll come to you...trust me....aim him sometimes...DO NOT ACT HYPER....thats why i didn't like the girl...she asked me to the dance 2 times..or was it 3. good luck oh and email me so i can see what turns out at tidusbl99@yahoo.com
:)
2007-01-01 16:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by LOST-ECHO8P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a stranger...yet what i might reccomend is to form of lay low and see what he does...in line with risk invite him to an yule or new years occasion if youre having one. you could additionally ask him to the valentines dance in feb.
2016-12-15 13:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give it time, but if it looks like he is coming around, then get on the band wagon.
2007-01-01 16:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe, it will come true. You are in charge of attracting the right person for you.
2007-01-01 16:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have a chance with him. Time will tell.
2007-01-01 16:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋