I no longer wish to go out with my girlfriend, how do I go about breaking up with her?
2007-01-01 16:04:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just tell her the truth plain and simply that you no longer want to be in the relationship and you tell her why. Very important don't just say because you don't feel like it. You tell her exactly why you don't want to be with her any more(don't lie or make anything up tell the truth). It won't be fun or easy but it'll be better in the end if you just make it a nice clean break.
2007-01-01 16:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Xander : Crimson Angel of Logic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest but no placing blame. Just say that things aren't working out. Give a few reasons but not to many... never leave any hope that you might get back together... (even if you might in the future... dont leave her hanging). Do it on her territory someplace she is comfortable with. like her house so she can deal how she needs to. Be prepared for yelling, screaming, crying and begging... Be firm but kind... make it as short as possible. Its a hard road... good luck
2007-01-01 16:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by akholler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be caring, discreet, and tell the truth. If it's really over, then don't lie and give false hope. Be alone with her when it happens, and never speak badly of her to others, no matter how she might lash out. Keep your dignity without taking hers. Tell her the truth, and tell her that you think she deserves the truth, no matter how hard it might be to tell her. No one likes rejection, it tends to leave one thinking of everything they didn't do right. Try to remember that, and if possible when you say good bye, try not to make her feel like she was & is nothing.
2007-01-01 16:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First tell her u luv her but it hasnt been a walk in the park for us.
Tell her I dont feel the way i did about u its not u its me. I just need to figure out what i need. I just want to say girl i never meant to cross ur world and i never thought i saw the day we grew apart. Girl i hope u get what im trying to say, we just cant go on. Im sorry, but if i dont tell u, ur gonna start hatin me. And i no its hard but we have to our sepert ways. Listen to ur heart u no we arent meant to be. Im sorry, i luv u and hope we an still be friends
2007-01-01 16:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bballchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do you say " I love you but im sorry I dont think we should go out any more don't cry (if she's crying) I am taking this hard too but let's be friends for now okay?" You see not so hard not too soft and BOY you BETTER bring an I'm Sorry card with Chocolate!!!!
2007-01-01 16:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very gently and honestly. Tell her u need some space and dont think u have a future as boyfriend and gurlfriend, that she is special and wonderful.! That is never easy at best. Good luck!
2007-01-01 16:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, its the best thing you can do. If you fell out of love tell her.. if you found someone else telle her.. whatever you do dont lie to her.. honesty is the best policy.. if your truthful maybe she will respect it
2007-01-01 16:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it plainly and clearly no need for some flowery speach or lies. Tell her you prefer someone elses company over her exclusive company. We should try dating other people.
2007-01-01 16:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the road Jack! Make a new plan Stan!
2007-01-01 16:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you need some space. Remember to say that you will still be her friend. Be kind and nice about it.
2007-01-01 16:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋