I'm ashamed that I even asked him to look through his phone. I just thought it was only fair that since he always looks through mine. He knows that my ex and I are friends, and accepts that he calls me from time to time. But he doesn't like me being friends with guys. AT ALL. I've lost all my guy friends because he guilt trips me. I looked through his phone in front of him, and he's been sending different girls text messages saying "he really needs to hang out with them", specially the days i had been working. Called one of them as an initiative, when he always says they call him. I dont think its fair he gets to plan out times to hang out with girls, and I have to feel bad about even considering hanging out with my friends....
2007-01-01 16:03:06 · 7 answers · asked by GC 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband has this friend who always sends him messages,well i went to the source,i told her just today that i hope shes gets a boyfriend who has a friend that texts him all the time and then she can see how i feel.i know my husband isnt cheating on me with her but she needs to realize that he has his on life and she doesnt need to be in it all the tine.calling maybe once in a while might be ok but not everyday.
2007-01-01 16:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man that is sooo not even right girl. If he isnt feeling bad then u shouldnt either. Everyone has a right to have friends. You keep your friends. If he cant do the same for you then you shouldnt do so at all. I think that you really should have your friends. Dont be jealous. It sounds to me like he wants to control you and you are just lettin him have his way. So I just dont think that you should ditch all your friends for him males or not for him when he is keepin all his... find your backbone girl... and good luck with that control freak.
2007-01-02 00:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be fair. If he wants to have girls as friends then he shouldn't be mad cause you have guy friends. Besides if he doesn't have a problem with you talking with your ex then he shouldn't have a problem with you talking to other guys.
But seriously he can't tell you who you can or can't hang out with. You guys don't seem to be on the same page.
2007-01-02 00:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case you need to talk to him and explain him how you feel just like you explained us. Both of you need to discuss this matter and find a solution that will be fair for everyone. Good luck:)
2007-01-02 00:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a new boyfriend...I mean its one thing if you both agree that maybe you should keep other members of the opposite sex out of your lives, that is reasonable to some extent, but not one of you does, the other doesn't...leave him, and be prepared for the inevitable stalking...
2007-01-02 00:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the smae as him though even though I know I'll never get the girl
2007-01-02 00:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE MAD, MORE THEN
JEALUS, HE SAY HE DOES NOT WANT YOU TO TALK TO
ANY YOUR GUYS FRENDS, BUT HE CAN TALK TO ALL THESE OTHER GIRLS, THAT NOT FAIL, WHAT GOOD FOR
THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANGER.. IF HE LOOK
THOUGH YOURS, THEN TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHAT YOU
FOUND IN HIS.
2007-01-02 00:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋