ok my friend wants to "lose it" to her boyfriend, of 4 months, who has told me lost of times that he's cheated on her and likes doing it (i've told her this but she want believe me...) anyways when i tell her this is A BAD IDEA she say, "well you're just mad becuz you want do anything with your guy.." (witch, i know.) so what do you think i should do?
2007-01-01 16:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by Emilee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my friend and i are only 16 y.o's
2007-01-01 16:02:42 · update #1
Just tell her we all think she is a tramp.....
2007-01-01 16:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make her mistake and face the consequences; when she is brokenhearted and crying, you have the power of saying to her that you were there looking out for her the whole way through.
Then she'll remember you as a wonderful and loyal friend!
But short-term, you should just keep trying to talk to her about it - talk to the guy too, but don't place yourself too deep into the situation because it isn't your relationship, no matter how much you care about your friend.
2007-01-02 00:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that it is indeed A BAD IDEA, a very bad idea. Their relationship is likely to end when he gets tired of her. As a friend, you could only advise her. I believe suggesting marriage before she "lose(s) it" will frighten him away. However, it will be she, and she alone, who has to make the decision and face up to the consequences of her decision/action. As a friend, just be around her and let her know that you are and will be supportive.
2007-01-02 00:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth about the guy----do you know anyone that he cheated with--get them to talk to her.
Sorry, but I'm old and I have to say it---you guy's shouldn't be having sex any way----boy's will say anything to get a girl in bed.
2007-01-02 00:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that the first time should be really really nice
make sure to find somebody gentle who she trusts and likes and has known for awhile
somebody who would stop if she said to
2007-01-02 00:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her live her own life and make her own mistakes,
Its all a part of growing up.
2007-01-02 00:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell ur friend she is very naive wait a while till ur away from the rents then its all good
2007-01-02 00:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if he is the one
2007-01-02 00:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~~~~~~~~ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you 5 or do you or do you not know how to spell
2007-01-02 00:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by iLoVe HoRsEs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him he can talk to her to make this desision
2007-01-02 01:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋