I have a problem with a friend of mine. I like him and would consider going out with him. The problem is, is that whenever we're with a certain group of people he ignores me, almost like I am not there. But when we're alone we have a great time. I am really confused by all this. Would anyone be able to give me some advice? Thanks
2007-01-01 15:54:47 · 14 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel. see what he says. if he makes you cry. move on. no man is worth your tears, and the one who is, wont make you cry them.
2007-01-01 15:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by deuce da goose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem with my boyfriend. Around his friends he was rude and wouldn't pay any attention to me. All I did was go up to him and told him how I felt. Trully tell him how you feel from your heart. And never accuse him of it. Always start with I feel ignored, not you ignore me. Good luck! Try asking him when you guys are together if he could think of you guys to be something more than just friends.
2007-01-02 00:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Steffanie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how close you two are, I would ask him about that. If not I would leave him alone, you don't need a guy who ignores, or is afraid to talk to you in front of people.
2007-01-02 00:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Starwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not speculate but he obviously does not want others to know about your relationship, if there is one or going to be one, with him. Simply ask him why and I believe your trouble will likely go away once he gives you the answer. All the best!
2007-01-02 00:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ignores u around a group but is fine when its just u two hes a jerk. if he cant be nice to u both ways then hes not the guy for u. good luck!
2007-01-02 00:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Josie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My home boy does that too well I told him I didn't like being ignore and each time he ignores him I ma walk out on him
2007-01-01 23:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is insecure and ashamed of you. Or you are just a backup for when he isnt around his real friends. These are worst case scenarios i guess, you would know better than I whats what.
2007-01-01 23:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh hi..im a guy...and i think that we,guys,sometimes get nervouse or afraid to show our real emotions...sometimes other guys play hard to get...maybe he's hiding something from you..by the way..dont lose your cool.you'll have the chance when your destined to be together,just accept what the future brings and be strong..ahaha
2007-01-01 23:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by aldrin_fob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want to be around you with people, he is trying as hard as he can to make sure they dont think he likes you...meaning you arent getting past being friends...or he is just insane...
2007-01-01 23:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u think. tell him that you think u guys can go further but u dont understand why he ignores u when u r around other people. hes never gonna know how u feel until u tell him something, believe me... i know
2007-01-01 23:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by maybesureok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know how you feel. If he only likes you in the dark that is not a good beginning it will lead only to heartache.
2007-01-02 00:00:16 · answer #11 · answered by L.Sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋