Okay, so here's the thing. I don't know why, but I seem to believe anything a man will say. I go to bars, and well, let's just i'm easily "convinced". The other night while out with the girls, this guy invites me back to his place, right? What do I do? After my friends beg me not to go, I go anyways. He was nice and all, kept charming his way and not to mention saying over and over I was "a nice girl" the whole shabang. But then, after "fooling around" and things got heavy I said no to sex remembering my friends made me realized I was "easy". He was cool about it; and he didn't touch me the rest of the night. *He hasn't called either!* So, to your humble opinion; was I intended to be a one night stand or could he actually call? If you don't know, what are "signs" and "sweet talk" that indicates a guy's intentions... Thanks!
2007-01-01 15:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience I have learned that all guys will use any girl for a one night stand. The only sign that he wont be a one night stand is if he wants to get to know you and don't try to sleep with you. Any decent guy will not try to have sex with you for the 1st couple dates. It is called respect; and you must 1st have respect for yourself. If he knows your easy with him then he knows you'll be easy with his friends also.
The other thing I want to mention here is safety, how do you know he isn't going to harm you or kill you once your alone with him? You may want to stop taking so many chances and sit and watch before you act. Keep Safe.
2007-01-01 16:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Grumpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wanted you for a one night stand. The reason is because the guy knows that you are easy even if you didnt have sex with him because you went to his house and fooled around. A good guy likes a girl who isnt easy and plays hard to get. But not to hard to get, just not the type of girl that wont go to his house on the first night and that isnt always avaliable and who doesn fall for every line that a guy says. The fact is that most guys just want sex and they will say things to make you feel good or special just to get it, if you fall for it then you were too easy and they wont keep you as a girlfriend, instead you will just be a one night stand or a booty call. Just respect yourself and dont fall for a guys lines. Be a attractive girl who isnt easy to get and watch all the guys that want to be your boyfriend!
2007-01-01 16:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you should be old enough, so I'm going to give you a piece of reality. ALL GUYS WANT ONE NIGHT STANDS!
If they can get "some" without commitment, then they jump at the chance. Its all part of a guy macho thing. The easier you are, the better you are to them. And, any girl who goes home with a guy from a bar is looking to get "laid". Or at least 99% of guys would think so.
Seems like to me you have issues with yourself. You need to respect yourself more. Follow your friends' advice and be discreet in your relationships. If you're known as easy then you'll never find Mr. Right. If you continue to be gullible, then I don't think anybody can help you.
2007-01-01 15:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was at a bar...then most lightly the guy is lookin for a good time or one night stand, he is a player.
He will not call u but if u two hook up at the bar again, then u both are asking for a one night stand.
2007-01-01 15:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with a name like pootycatsexy what else would a guy want?
2007-01-01 15:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋