I am interested in going to a nude beach or clothing optional beach with my friend Jessica. She told me that she will be wearing a bikini but doesnt care if I go naked. Well, I am wondering should I tell her I may get an erection in front of her? Or should I not bring it up? I am afraid I might. I just dont want to have 3.5 inches staring at her and her to be shocked.
2007-01-01 15:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
sure y not , and dont be shy , if she was afraid at your size , she wouldnt have asked
2007-01-01 15:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I am interested in going to a nude beach or clothing optional beach with my friend Jessica. She told me that she will be wearing a bikini but doesnt care if I go naked. Well, I am wondering should I tell her I may get an erection in front of her? Or should I not bring it up? I am afraid I might. I...
2015-08-20 05:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Marcia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a nudist for over 25 years the one thing I can say is that getting an erection at a nude beach is very unlikely to happen!
It's the one thing guys really get hung up on, but it happens so rarely - probably because guys are so afraid of it happening in the first place!
If your friend is keen to go I'd go for it if I were you.
2007-01-03 22:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your ages? If you are both adults and it is legal for you to go nude at a nude beach (and it is not too cold) have fun, but carry some clothes just in case.
Remember to use suntan lotion as you can get sunburn even on a cloudy day.
If either of you are not an adult DON'T DO IT!
2007-01-01 15:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nude beaches are great! I absolutely love them, and most people who go for the first time usually come back.
Since nude beaches are really clothing optional, your friend can choose to either get completely naked, just topless or keep her clothes on...it's her choice.
Many guys who go to a nude beach get erections their first time there...just the idea of being naked around so many naked girls probably does it. We (girls) are not shocked or upset by it, as long as you don't get gross and play with it or wave it in our faces. Just turn over and let it pass by itself, or go into the water until it subsides.
It's not something you need to mention, because the nude beach really isn't about sex and you don't want to give her the wrong impression.
Hopefully, you'll both have a great time and learn to love the nude beach as much as I and my friends do.
Bare hugs...
2007-01-02 04:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been at Southern California's two largest nude beaches and erections are not the norm. Do they occasionally pop up-yes, but nude beaches are more about the sun and sensuality than overt sexuality.
Your real concern seems to be will Jessica compare your size to all the other men at the nude beach. Believe me, we women are more sophisticated than that. Some men are shorter, some are longer and on rare occasions even OMG but she is NOT going to judge you on those 3.5 flaccid inches.
2007-01-02 06:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by HeatherS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
other people on that beach are gonna contribute to that erection too, not just ur friend.
plus she should realize it'd be inevitable u'd get an erection at such a beach.
2007-01-01 16:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by implosion13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no prob. going with her, as for being shocked about 3.5", well, I better not say.
2007-01-01 15:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by barbara m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i live in maryland and first of alll it depends on how old u r sry
2016-03-19 08:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves you then she will not care for that size
2007-01-01 15:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by mojojojo92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋