Ihave a friend who scolds me all the the time about MY BEHAVIOUR....look at your behaviour ...look at what you are doing and saying. Yet if you tell him something he does not answer and does the sam e thing again. Right now he is in trouble on 2 occassions because of his TEMPER...I would say that is bad behaviour!!!
Am I to say "sorry " all the time and apologize all the time for my behaviour???
Is there some kind of legal thing to all this , asmy friend likes to also threathen a lawsuit over "behaviour issues". I say " Go ahead! I am not afraid . I know I have done nothing wrong..You just have more legal knowledge then I do...BUT I SURE WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT IS BEHIND THIS " BEHAVIOUR STUFF".
I will change and watch what I say and do if it is necessary.
Legal or otherwise....why the "behaviour" stuff...seems like a big criticism to me. Is it helpful or hurtful in disguse????
2007-01-01 15:15:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he is taking his behavior problems out on you. Don't listen to him. Sounds like you know how to behave. I think he is trying to hurt or insult you intelligence. When he says things about your behavior, don't even comment because he doesn't deserve any comments. Find a new friend.
2007-01-01 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay bad behavior- is that the worst you have it? That can be worked on expecially if you love each other. Get over yourself and work on yourself and tell her how your feeling with her behavior, if she wants you bad enough she will get help and change herself. You sound paranoid to me, what the heck do u mean by legal? oh a lawsuit, is it that bad? Really I think you two are in love at some level and you should talk. I highly doubt she wants a lawsuit against you and for what? Have u abused her?
2007-01-01 15:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oft times people will criticize your behavior to validate theirs and deflect people who would go after them.
Don't know any legal basis for a suit over "behavior issues". He'd have to be a lot more specific to begin to worry me. Then again, if he's as you described, he'd not be in my circle of friends that I hang out with, but that's your choice. Personally, I think I could do better.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 15:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your true friend, he would not scold and criticise you. He would respect and advise you instead. Whether you change or not is entirely up to you. If he could not tolerate your behaviour, why does he still befriend you? More importantly, I would like to add that change for the better is always good for us all. All the best!
2007-01-01 15:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just needs to get a life
2007-01-01 15:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋