I just started going out with this boy a couple of days ago. He lives 8 hours away from me! I know him through my aunt. I love him very much, but I just need some subjects to talk about. please help me! If I don't talk then he might break up with me. What should I do to keep this realtionship between us strong?
2007-01-01 14:53:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love already? Hmmm? Maybe there is nothing to talk about because you don't have a relationship. If you want to keep a conversation going, keep asking him questions about him and his interests. It is often this anxiety about not knowing what to talk about that leads people to jump into sexual activity as a defensive more familiar harbor.
2007-01-01 14:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After only a couple of days you are already in love? With someone you can't even hold a conversation with? Oh please!Grow up and focus on school. Leave the relationships alone until you're mature. A relationship is based on communication so if you can't communicate with him... well, you do the math!
'Keep the relationship strong'???? I hate to break it to you but you don't have a relationship sweetie. You have an infactuation.
2007-01-01 23:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by ncscgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you can't even talk to?
You are in love with the idea of being in love, get over and find someone you have something in common with.
2007-01-01 22:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have some things in common, talk about those things such as basketball,cooking,television or just life itself. if not do things that he likes so u can talk about it such as if he likes hockey and u don't watch a few hockey games so u can talk about!! just find things that he likes and explore with it!!
2007-01-01 22:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by sammysep26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could arrange to go and see the same movie then you could discuss it the next time you talk or a cd
good luck
2007-01-01 22:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by maisyn3m ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about school/collage
or events that took place in your life or around your city
talk about how your family doing or how your friends r doing
can't htink of anything else. hope I helped u!
2007-01-01 22:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your interest and his and find out what you have in common.
2007-01-01 22:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋