most difficult situation in my life...helppp?

Question

my 9 month girlfriend cheated on me before we even slept together..shes 19 and i am 21...she slept with a 27 year old guy..she lied about it for 6 months..during that 6 months.she left me and went back with her ex..after winning her back and being the happiest man alive she told what she did and how it was all cause of that that she left me..now its been 9 months of hell...im so pissed all the time ..and i treat her like **** cause im so infuriated of what she did...any advice

Answer 1

You need to move on, you will never get this out of your head...

Answer 2

Looks like you are sentimental person. Nothing wrong, but I must tell you as a friend that emotional side of your personality is rather weak. At this age, you should know how to effectively deal with emotions. Similarly, you should make an attempt to make yourself stronger for any future situations.

Follow this :

Step 1 : Call her up and tell her that you spent some good time with her but you did not like the way she treated you. Also tell her that you can get along with others too.

Step 2 : Give yourself a break and try not to think about her (you decide the time period). The best way to forget something is to get into doing something you like.

Step 3 : The next time you get into a relationship, think what your expectations are and then take steady steps, do not rush. Try to judge the person you are dealing with before you decide to go further. This will help avoid future shocks.

Step 4 : If you are really serious about improving your emotional personality, visit the right practical consultant and he will advice you some day-to-day assignments to improve. This will help you not only for relationships but for most situations in life.

Good luck.

Answer 3

You Are Way better than that everyone is. You need to find a way to never think about this again.

Never look back make her dead in your tracks. Never seek never peek. You will find someone better with way better morals. She never loved you if she could just turn on you like that, you don't deserve that. Find your true someone grow old together. But for now find her and nomader who's with her say "I NEVER THOUGH THAT I WOULD DATE THE MOST INSECURE PERSON THAT EVERYONE KNEW BUT I WAS WRONG BUT NOT AS WRONG AS YOU LOL".

NEVER GIVE UP YOU WILL FIND THE ONE PERSON THAT MAKES YOU WHOLE AGAIN!!!

Answer 4

if you're 21 and you really don't know what to do, that is sad. it hurts but you just have to let her go, she's too young to settle down, she'll just cheat on every guy she has. it will proberbly be doing yourself a favor. find a girl that will stick with you because she is in love. or go to eharmony.com and get a match.

Answer 5

Goodness gracious, this girl is no good for you at all. She is dragging you down, and you need to get out of this situation. Cut off contact with her, don't return her calls, and move on. Find someone who respects you, who won't lie to you, who won't sleep with other guys, and who won't bring down your self-esteem.

Answer 6

Forgive Her But Do It From Afar

Answer 7

G-E-T O-U-T of that relationship. it aint worth it. look unless you did somethin to her before she cheated on you then none of this is your fault and you need to find a nice girl that will treat you well. jump ship now while you still can

Answer 8

it will never work out anymore the one thing that matter to you was trust and there is none so the best thing to do is walk out of this before really getting more hurt and another thing no person deserve to get treated like ****

Answer 9

Advice? Move on and don't ever look back. You deserve someone better than her.

Answer 10

You mean she slept with the 27 yr old man while being in a r/s with you or before the start of your r/s?