I guess i just want to know whats the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone and why is it so complicated. I wanna let go but I don't. I am all confused. I don't know what I wanna do.
2007-01-01 14:48:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well youll know when you actually love a guy. You probably are loving this guy as more of one of your best friends. You love your best friends right? It might feel a little different since he is a guy but if your not loving him in that romantic kind of way but you still love him that would be my guess.
2007-01-01 14:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Christie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in love is one who cant be without the other u cant breathe u cant sleep u cant eat u can concentrate all u want too do is be with that person and if u not u r lost.. being in love means u can be in a room of thousands of people and only u and ur mate exist.. and jus loving someone well u care about that person but u arent relying on them they go there way u go urs...jus try and not confuse the 2 because sometimes when ur young is is possible...â¥
2007-01-01 23:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The in love feeling you are talking about is pupply love. It's the crap that you feel at the beginning of the relationship.
Real love is doing the work to make the relationship last through the ups and downs, sticking together no matter what, etc.
2007-01-01 22:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question, when did you guys start sleeping together, and this is serious!!!!!!!!!!! Sex shouldn't define a relationship, especially in the beginning. Usually when sex is in the equation at the start,everything is hot and fresh, and important things are never talked about. Then it may be an attachment issue. Did you grow up with both parents, have you cheated on him? Are you currently seeing another guy? You know why your confused.
2007-01-01 22:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by brandley_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel love..its the same feeling sweetie the only difference is you are not in love with him..you can love someone but not be in love with them..just as long as u dont confuse it will gas...just kidding dont confuse it with lust..you love him like you brother mother father sister cousin, but u dont love him like my husband baby daddy wanna be with forever..
2007-01-01 22:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by chellediva2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to my religion teacher (*rolls eyes*) it is a misuse of the word "love." it is only love when you feel the same love you feel for your parents and your siblings. people say "i love bananas"(totally random), but you can't really mean love because that's comparing your parents to a fruit.
if you want to know real love, ask your parents or someone you know who is happily married.
2007-01-01 22:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by kaymay09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving someone means a day without him, is like not living at all
and being loved is your bf can't keep his hands off of you
if u don't exactly love ur bf, but still love him, maybe because ur afraid of losing someone you love or something
2007-01-01 22:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you my neighbor?she's doing the same thing.she tells me she don't want to be alone,but she enjoys his paycheck on Fridays.you are using him .let that guy go.he deserves love 100% from someone that is willing to give him everything he needs and then some.you don't want to let go because your selfish,you don't want to be alone either,none of us do,but that don't give you the right to use a person for your personal use.he's not a puppy.try a human being.
2007-01-01 23:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is blind... you never can tell when you are IN LOVE or just love someone you just have to go with it... love is never easy and is unpredictable... but i would have to say when you are IN LOVE with him you will feel everything at once sadness, happiness and joy, and fear... all you will thing about is him... just go with it and don't think too much about love, trust me if you are thinking about it too much you will miss it and won't see it.
2007-01-01 22:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru the same thing and it turned out 2 be a 2 week crush!
2007-01-01 22:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jaimie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋