My new b/f cheated on his g/f to be with me and I cheated on my b/f to be with him. We both are agaisnt cheating now and Have agreed never to cheat on eachother. Will my new b/f cheat on me??
2007-01-01 14:46:03 · 20 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will NEVER cheat on my new b/f
2007-01-01 14:51:04 · update #1
Probably a 80% chance he will...
2007-01-01 15:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. Take some advice from someone who's been cheated on enough to know. I am totally against cheating, I never have and I never will, but I've been hurt enough times by it to know that no good ever comes from it. You wonder if your b/f will cheat on you? The question you probably haven't even considered is will you cheat on your b/f? You have both done it at least once so whose to say either one of you won't do it again. I don't understand why it's so hard to be honest w/ the person you're with and just tell them you're interested in someone else. I know it's hard to tell them and you don't want to hurt them, but I swear to you it's going to hurt either way but they will respect the honesty of telling them instead of them finding out you cheated and betrayed them. I also know that you will respect yourself in the long run and won't have doubts of faithfulness in your next relationship. Bottom line I don't know if either of you will cheat on each other, but I know that there is no hope for any relationship that starts out of deception and is constantly worrying if each other is truly faithful. Trust me I know first hand it can't and won't work this way unless both of you are honest with each other and trust each other. Good Luck, you're going to need it.
2007-01-01 23:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Xander : Crimson Angel of Logic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I could ever trust someone who has cheated before. I would be paranoid. I hate to say this but most of the time, "once a cheater, always a cheater." Good luck.
2007-01-01 22:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by GraceSlickChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably..... yes. I know it sounds harsh and mean, but it's realistic. :(
However.... if you go into a relationship EXPECTING him to cheat on you, you are only going to set yourself up for disappointment. You are in between a rock and a hard place. For future reference, probably best to not cheat in the first place.
2007-01-01 22:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. Statistically speaking, yes. Once a cheater always a cheater.
I hope not, for your sake. But the odds aren't in your favor hon.
2007-01-01 22:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you cheat on Him?
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2007-01-01 22:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds hypocritical to me & remember that if you both cheated to be with each other chance are either of you may do it again.
2007-01-01 22:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way tell if he will but if he does then he'll probably point out that you've cheated also, so in his mind it might be okay
2007-01-01 22:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Italian Stallion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you will probably cheat on him too, so the playing field will be level.................
2007-01-01 22:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES can some 1 answer my question now?? plz? im really desperate...lol
2007-01-01 22:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋