I grew up pretty fast as far as dating and sex (14). I'm going on 28 now and having sown my oates by 21, I've been ready for commitment and long term happiness since. Here's my dilema. All the really attractive women I date turn out to be mental cases or loosers with no goals or direction in life. Then I date these career women with great personality, goals, drive, self respect, and an open heart, but I'm not physically attracted to them. To top it all off, the good looking women who have something going for themselves are either lesbians or bitter and don't trust men because they been played one too many times and have too much to loose with heartache. It almost seems like I was better off being a dog. Good, single, attractive men aren't extinct, you all just have to get your noses out of the air to see us.
2007-01-01 14:43:53 · 1 answers · asked by ZX3R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
easy, don't go to bars to look for women, try finding singles mixers, or put an add in the singles section of your paper. If you find a woman that is bitter or afraid of her heart being broken, then take the time and initiatve to show her not all men are dogs! Don't date women your not attracted to.
And having no goals or direction in life does not mean your a loser, it may mean they don't know what they want right now, or are just a free spirit.
Get YOUR nose out of the air and look at women you wouldn't normally look at.
Beauty fades, personality doesn't.
2007-01-02 11:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋