What kind of things would you like to see your future husband have? Traits? behaviors? Characteristics?
2007-01-01 14:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by brittanyrdh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he must be a man ;) LOL, but seriously... Perhaps I'm a bit old fashioned , but I would like to see him taking care of everything, and I should take care of children and his needs ;)
Now, I don't mind gettin a breakfast in bed with him as a dessert...
Ofcourse I don't want him lying on the couch while I'm doing the big clean up, and the only help I am to get from him is lifting his legs up when I need to vacuum clean the floor... And my kids would need a dad alone which means that he must have some time with them, you know, playing and stuff. And ofcourse we both have to go out with them, walking, going on picnics, walking the dogs, spend some quality time together...
When they come to a school age, he will be assigned to help them with math...
Concerning our relationship, I xpect never to leave me waiting, to turn me down... :)
He must be good , loving, emotionally strong, to provide me security... Or at least 2 big dobermans ;)
I need to feel safe when I put my head on his shoulder, on his heart... I need to be assured how much I'm loved... In return he will have a wife almost close to perfection...
He mustn't drink too much. And he must be there for me...
He must be strong, firm to others, ready to "defend my honor" , but also to be a lamb when he's with me...
In bed, depending on the mood, as much as I would like woodcutter, I would also like a romantic type... Sometimes wild, sometimes gentle,slow... but never to do it just from habit.
Ofcourse I want only the truth. No matter how ugly it is. I despise lies... And I need him to be loyal. To be my best friend, best lover, best father... My first and last resort. My happiness... My pain... I want him to be the reason why I get up every morning. I need him to be my everything...
I know that I'm probably praying for someone who doesn't exist, but hope is the last one which fades...
2007-01-01 15:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well im going to be married next year to my now Fiance.Every woman wants different qualities, traits and behaviors but im sure one thing us women all want is THE TRUTH.Truth is the key to all greatness. TRUST is the key to a successful heart warming relationship. LOYALTY is what we all long for and what we all should have.LOVE is what keeps it all going! And its so well worth it! :) Happy New Years.
2007-01-01 22:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the most important qualities I looked for, which my husband lives up to and exceeds:
1. Common faith/morals/values
2. Commitment
3. Mutual respect
4. Common goals/aspirations/plans for the future
5. Common hobbies/interests
2007-01-01 22:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want my soulmate, even though I think I'll be married more than once, but I'm praying to marry Mr. right. If I can detect that he is special, irresistible, and I have this chemistry that I can't explain, then I could tell his other traits are good. I mean, we would both have to be completely smitten by eachother.
Krazy Libra
2007-01-01 22:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one I'm married to! He's sensitive, caring, honest, smart, hard-working, respectful, loving...and an incredible father. I couldn't ask for more :)
2007-01-01 22:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) doesn't smoke
2) compassionate/understanding
3) has a slight ego
4) faithful and honest (most important quality)
5) taller than me
2007-01-01 22:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Nina Abb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first & formost i want him 2 love me! â¥â¥â¥
then i want him 2 b intellegent because im not the smartest person at times, i want him to be able to help me make the right choices and give me advice, i want him to be funni and genuinlly care about me, i want him to be my best friend and love having fun, i want him to be completely honest and able to talk to me about anything, i want him to like some of the same things as me, i want him to be healthy (not like buff... just average), and lastly i want him to mean what he says when we say our vows because i want him to be able to commit and love me 4ever =) mayb im just dreaming... but its a good dream =) God bless â¥
2007-01-01 22:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex. sex. sex. sex. sex. sex. sex.
sex.
2007-01-01 22:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha G 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋