There’s this guy I like; he seems to like me but he has a girlfriend. I heard he doesn’t mean to act the way he does, but I have a hard time believing that. I was very sick a while ago and he offered to drive me to the hospital any time, day or night. When my car wouldn’t start he attempted to help me, even though he didn’t know what he was doing. Whenever I’m in need he makes it a priority to help me. When my car broke down he offered to drive me where I was going. He even offered to take me out to dinner but he was going with his gf. He flirts with me (intentional or not); teases me, pretends to not see me and walk into me, sticks up for me when people do things to hurt me, he stands close to me when we are talking with friends (our arms are touching), he even called me pretty one day. His girlfriend acts jealously and tries to kiss him when I’m around. He seems to not like it. I heard he wants to break up with her. We had a conversation over AIM and he was very interested in learning how my break from school was going. We even made plans when we get back. I don’t know what to do or think! Is he just friendly or does he like me? Should I let him work the course with his girlfriend? Should I tell him that I like him, with him attached?
2007-01-01 14:40:46 · 9 answers · asked by christypooh87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this is a tuff one normally i would be like oh hell no..but baby the only thing u can do is tell him how you feel and let it takes its course..do not pursue him..then u would be the B**** in gurls minds..you know how we think..just make it known he i like you and i think you like me to..i know u have a gurlfriend i just wanted to let you know that if things dont work out between the two of u maybe we can have dinner or something..and make sure u say ONLY IF YOU ARE SINGLE and OFFICIALLY NOT WITH HER..so she dont go pyschoatic or label u the mistress and that b*** so forth..all you can do right now is tell him how you feel your hands are tied until he makes his move
good luck
2007-01-01 14:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by chellediva2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a nice guy, and he really cares about you as a friend. Until he says he likes you as more than a friend you have to just accept the fact he is just being nice.
A lot of guys are like this, they like the attention of other females even though they are in a relationship.
So. they behave in ways to females that provoke the very feelings and reactions that you are now having.
It's not fair I know, but he has a g/f.
2007-01-01 14:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think u should ask him!! Confront him! That's the only way ur gonna know whats up with him. And if he says the he's just being friendly, tell him to stop flirting with you. But if he says that he really likes you, then you need to tell him to make up his mind because its no fair for either his girlfriend or you.
2007-01-01 14:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by B9O9R9I9C9U9A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't cut another person's grass.......the dude's in a r'ship, chances are if he's with you he'll be like that to other chicks.
He's most likely keeping you on the side on the back berner as a backup just in case things go bad with his current gf
2007-01-01 14:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by hegimony1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with a guy who obviously isn't upholding his committments to his girlfriend? You do realize he'll do the same thing to you right?
2007-01-01 14:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of i could shop difficulty as they're for now, in the event that they ever turn in yet another direction, then i think of i could lower back off, and not linger with him for verbal substitute too long. with a bit of luck he could get the image.
2016-10-19 08:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the guy to break up with her. do not go for it. be cool and be the same.
2007-01-01 14:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WERE YOU WAITING FOR AN ENGRAVED INVITATION?
There is nothing confusing about his behavior. He wants you and you aren't letting him know that you want him. Tell him tonight.
2007-01-01 14:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by jloertscher 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i only saw this "There’s this guy I like; he seems to like me but he has a girlfriend" ... forget about it.
2007-01-01 14:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋