my bf is not telling me what he did on new years and i think he might have cheated what should i do about?

Answer 1

He's just winding you up. If he had really cheated on you he would have a ready made story of what he did. He probably went to his mums and doesn't want you to know what a boring time he had. Stop working yourself up about it.

Answer 2

if he wont tell you..remember what he told he had done..wait a couple of days and reasked the question in a different format..such as: hey baby did u have fun at that club on new years that you said u went to, um what was the name again? ..next time well my friend (any name) said that she went to that place that night are you sure u went to the club? u ask the same question different ways and the truth will come to the late and you can do the same with his boys ...you know sooner or later someone bound to mess up..and if he did cheat make him pay.. leave his ***..

Answer 3

Well if you don't have open communication and trust, what do you have? You need to have a conversation with him and tell him how his lack of information makes you feel. I would never tell someone that you need to dump someone, it causes resentment, but if he still won't tell you, you might need to sit down and assess the situation. Best of luck to you, and I hope he did not cheat on you.

Answer 4

Do you think that he cheated on you because he doesn't want to tell you what he did or because of something else. Because if he doesn't want to tell you because you just keep asking maybe he is mad that you are not trusting him. Give him his space. But If their is other evidence that you have then I think you should just leave it alone and make him feel guilty about it like remind him that trust is very important and that if you did something that you would tell him because it is only fair to him. And just stuff like that, then he can fell really guilty and tell you.

Answer 5

that person who wrote above is as complete @ss h*le!!!!

but as for your question, please be careful!!!! if he won't tell you simple things like that there is a problem. If he absolutely will not tell you, talk to him first and tell him if he doesn't tell yuo what he did on new years then you will just assume that he cheated on you and he can get out of your life because you deserve better than that. That way he will most likely fess up. Also, you could call his friends and find out from them what he was actually up to on New years. Good luck!!!!

Answer 6

Why won't he tell you what he did??

Well, I can understand why you are suspicious. However, if he cheated don't you think he'd have some rock solid story to tell!

I think you have to trust someone you are in a relationship with but not be a door mat either. It's a tricky balance.
I say you tell him why it's bothering you, and see what he says.

Answer 7

It would probably be good to go "secret agent undercover" and find out if you have friends that might now a thing or two and do some serious CSI investigation if anything happened.

Answer 8

to the original questioner...if you have doubts then perhaps you should rethink the relationship regardless of whether or not your bf cheated..without trust there is no real love, so maybe you should consider moving on.

Answer 9

Suki: well yourself must decide to break -up with boyfriend or
go talk with him first .If he doesn't reply with his answer back
to you by then just leave ok?

Answer 10

dont worry about him then... first off he is with you so stop being paranoid and stop thinking negative about him... you have to trust him unless you dont which would mean that your relationship is based on nothing... just trust him