Advice Please?

Question

I'm 14 and I like this girl and I've gone out with her before. Now i think she likes me again and I like her. Now I find out that my friend likes her 2. So then I talk to my friend and he wouldn't tell me much he was like.. idk, I would go out. So then I'm thinking i don't think he actually likes her, i think he just wants a girl friend. So then i talk to the girl i like and she said that she would never go out with him because hes a mean to her and she likes me more. Infact last night i was talking to her and her mom thought we would make the pefect couple and wanted her to ask me out lol

Lately i've been going crazy over it and i've been thinking about it ever since. What do you think about it and do you have any ideas on what to do?

if i ask her out idk if i can be that good of boyfriend. my mom and dad thinks shes a great girl.

Answer 1

Dude, you're 14 years old. I wouldn't worry so much over 1 girl. You are young and have a whole lifetime ahead of you. If you like her, and you think she likes you, ask her out. The worst she can say is no... if nothing else, you can gaim some good experience out of this... either with building your own self confidence by approaching her or learning how to deal with rejection if she says no. Regardless, it won't be the end of the world either way. Seize the moment. Worry less and do more!

Answer 2

Well you both obviously like each other, so I say go for it. Ask her out and be happy. But first just talk to your friend and let him know that his friendship is valuable to you but that you and the girl really like each other and would like to give your relationship a 2nd try. Be modest with him and tell him you want him to be okay with it not rub it in his face. Tell him you want his blessing. He will eventually find someone that he will really like and will like him back.

Good Luck

Answer 3

your're 14
not important
after you read the above two sentence you'll think " i am important thsi could be love of my life, i really like her"
or something like that
you have 30 years to look for a mate don't stress

Answer 4

Let's see...if she likes you....and you like her....and she doens't like your friend....then you two should go out! If you think your friend likes her for the wrong reasons, then he probably doesn't really like her. I can't really see what your problem is. You liked her first and it seems to me like you're going to get the girl in the end.

Answer 5

stop thinking about it sounds lk she has already made her mind up that u are the one she likes so go 4 it and be safe and happy in your life and treat her good

Answer 6

it all depends on what happened before, but besides my opinion of 14 being too young to date, i think you might as well give it another chance.

Answer 7

Your to young, just live life easy, don't get trouble in your head with girls so early.

Answer 8

you really should ask her out. who cares about your friend because it doesn't sound to me like he really likes her either. believe me, people are usually right when they say you'd make the perfect couple. my friends say that to me about a guy i like who i went out with also.
go for it

Answer 9

It think you should ask her out and win her over. I was in the same dillema. could you stop by my question too? thx http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Apdk962IjqHAuLHcxmEOFqUezKIX?qid=20070101193339AANwTx3

Answer 10

Well i think that you should ask hear out wiat you she wood be so Happy believe me i am 14 to and i am a growl that loves boys that ask me out.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!