im drepressed my parents will go out and never tell me if i whant to go along. my brothers do alot of things tegother but never with me. the only thing we do is play soccer tegother but they only tell me to come cause im the better then all of them. is it okay to run oway from home or what options do i vave. about 5 minures a go my dad yelled at me cause i left a wet towel in the sofa.
2007-01-01 14:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
What a hard place to be in. I understand how u feel because i felt like that at one point too. And while some of how u feel is ur fault, some of it is theirs too. But they dont do it intentionally....over time perhaps your actions have just shown them that u wouldnt be interested in the things that they are doing and honestly, would u go if they asked? if the answer is yes, then invite yourself!!! i can almost guarantee that u will not be turned down.if they are going somewhere, say hey can i come too? i promise it will work!!
2007-01-01 14:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by lil blue eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I good way to resolve these issues is for you to go talk to your parents (and brothers) and tell them how you feel. Use neutral, non blaming language as you do so to avoid them becoming defensive and deflecting criticism. The best way to resolve issues is to get to the point, and not try to guess or presuppose what you assume they may be doing.
There might be a logical explanation to all that you are observing or seeing. Finally, ask yourself, "How can I change or make things better. You can only really change your own behavior and not the behavior of others.
2007-01-01 22:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the "baby" of the family?
By that, I mean, are you the youngest?
Unless you speak up, they'll never know...but being a new parent from adoption...I can surely tell you, parents NEED their space from their kids just as much as YOU need space from them.
No sense in running away, because they will find you, and even though they'll be so happy when they do, it will not change anything, except that they will not trust you as much until you rebuild trust with them.
Just talk to them...that's the only REAL option you have if you want results.
2007-01-01 22:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob..wwell i did until my dad stop sdrinking my paretns till dislike .,..my dad tells me im the worlds problem..i am worthless.i write poetry... grazierssite.tripod.com click wrting on the left...but i just put up with it and im norm not home..hang out with friends alot and jsut ignor him..
2007-01-01 22:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling your parents that you feel left out? Maybe they don't realize they are doing it.
2007-01-01 22:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all to runaway over that is just stupid. tell them how u feel or ask to go along with them,
2007-01-01 22:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make more of an effort to get involved, you can't just expect stuff and then feel all bad.
2007-01-01 22:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
i dont know because im the same.....
2007-01-01 22:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋