My g/f is not a virgin. I am. Should I tell her or no?? Will she think I am lying?? Will she actually believe a popular guy is a virgin??
2007-01-01 14:23:58 · 42 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would tell her that your a virgin.
2007-01-01 14:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by chongo89478 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even popular guys have to lose it sometime. Until then, they are virgins. Nothing to be worried about. Unless there is some reason why you still are. Mostly, if you are just shy about sex, its not a problem at all. Most guys are shy about sex, but would never admit it. Tell her. Share it with her. Don't make a big political or religious statement about it... just tell her you are still a virgin.
2007-01-01 14:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely you should tell her. If she really cares she will know you aren't lying. Popular guys can be a virgin. I wish my man was, so I can be his first! It's an honor!
2007-01-01 14:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by snowbody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her man, u shouldn really worry about it. Maybe u wont be soon, but she will understand. its like my ex. she said she wasnt a virgin and i told her that i was and nothing happened she respected my decision and i respected her un-verginity. In a relationship i use this motto: "without trust there is no love and without love there is no trust". This might help u too, when u tell her tell her in her eyes. Trust me this works if she doesnt believe u dont angry just look at her in the eyes and tell her...eventually she will believe u.
2007-01-01 14:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell if you are going to have sex at some time with her her she will respect that just make sure she knows you are not condemning her because she is not . You don't want to go all the way with a girl and her think you are just bad in bed instead of unexperianced.
2007-01-01 14:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by SE7EN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know how guys are always about "doin the virgin"? Trust me, girls are the same way. hahahahaha
She won't care. If she is, then she's not that smart cause sometimes you can teach virgins how to do it correctly!
2007-01-01 14:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Beeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is the truth then you should tell her. that is a important detail about you and why you are not trying to have sexual relations with her. Be sure to tell her how long you are planning to wait until you lose your virginity
2007-01-01 14:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really any need to tell her unless she asks or unless it comes up. I definately wouldn't lie about it -- be proud to be a virgin! -- but in normal conversation, it probably won't come up, so don't worry too much about it.
2007-01-01 14:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say to her ; i know that 95% of men say they are a virgin jest so they can get in to bed with a girl, also they are often lieing, but i,m not one of them. because i know there is some girls that have values and respect for them selves, also i respect my self and i would respect them. so that,s why i,m still a virgin so if i find a girl who wan,t to wait till marrage it would not be too hard for me to wait,
2007-01-01 14:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her...If you don't tell her she may expect more than what you can give her, without experience....
I would like to have a virgin boyfriend....You can train them.....If you know what I mean.....Just be Honest with her.
2007-01-01 14:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends honestly what kind of a person is she, before anything you need to gain trust before telling her that and remember rumors can be caused you are putting your heart out there be carful also your popularity can be as risk
2007-01-01 14:27:11 · answer #11 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋