well theres 2 guys that want to be with me... one of them is josh and the other is andrew.. josh is my x boyfriend and andrew is the guy im dating now.... when im with josh im happy but he is tooooo jelous and gets mad super easily he also wants to boss me around... and i dont think so.. when im with andrew im really happy he spoils me a lot and he is realistic the only bad thing about him is that he lives far from me:( i like both of them the same. but i dont know who will make me happy or "happier"......
so should i stay with josh, andrew or move on from both of there lives.??????? please answer my question!!
2007-01-01 14:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you don't want a control freak. So avoid Josh. You might think jealousy is cute, but when it turns to anger, it's dangerous. So move on from him.
If you're happy with Andrew, then give it a chance. I don't know how far you are from him, but if it's working out so far, why worry? If you're looking for excuses to get out of it though, then you should think about the real reasons why.
2007-01-01 14:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well can you see a future with either one of them? Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with Andrew or Josh? Who makes you feel the most special and most loved? Who can't you imagine your life without? If Andrew is worth it, then you will know it. I'd go with Andrew if he really makes your happy because one day you can move closer to be together. It's all about who you feel is worth of putting your time and energy into a relationship with. You just have to ask your self some serious questions about what you want for your future. Good luck!
2007-01-01 22:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating two guys at once, and do they know this? If not, then you have some issues that need to be resolved before you date anybody. If they do know you are dating both of them, then they have issues. No real guy wants his girlfriend dating anybody but him. If Josh knows about Andrew and visa versa, then neither one of them care a crap for you (except for what they can get out of ya).
Boucing from guy to guy isn't emotionally healthy....for any of ya'll.
2007-01-01 22:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be true to your self im going throught the same thing with a girl of mine and it just so happens that the other guys name is Josh too. But Over protective boyfriend are never good take it from me i used to be one. i had to learn that its not good to suppress a girl and be controlling. Read some of my questions and your know what not to do inregards to how to treat these guys. But what i can say is Dont lie to either one of them and dont lead them on Please. Be safe and make good choices
2007-01-01 22:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chris m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that are jealous and short tempered usually get worse. When he's mad, does he blame you? If he does, stay clear of him.
2007-01-01 22:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF NOBODY CAN SAY WHICH ONE IS RIGHT FOR YOU. WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS IS THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE IT. WEIGH WHICH OF THE TWO HAS A STRONGER CONNECTION ON YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-01 22:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the lesser evil
2007-01-01 22:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight, you want us to tell you which boy to live with?
2007-01-02 14:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋