My gf is from the town 10 miles to the east. Some of the guys in her grade call and talk to her and maybe hang out IDK. Since i am not in her town to see how she handles it or what they say to her, would u be loyal to ur bf in this situation. IF he was from another town and u are dating him.
2007-01-01 14:16:19 · 18 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All relationships start with trust so go ahead and trust her.
2007-01-01 14:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all about trust, and only you can know if you really can trust your girlfriend. In the beginning stages of a relationship, this can be tough, especially if you've had problems in the past. It can be hard to let go and let her do her own thing, trusting her to make appropriate decisions.
If this is something that's bothering you, just talk to her about it. Bring it up calmly and let her know how her talking to other guys makes you feel. Don't tell her that she can't or shouldn't talk to them, just let her know how you feel. You may be able to work out some sort of situation which would make you feel more comfortable with her guy friends -- maybe you could arrange to all hang out together so that you could get to know them and you could see how she interacts with them.
Good luck!
2007-01-01 22:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, as well as most of the girls I know, would stick with the guy.
However, this totally depends on the girl. Most girls would probably be loyal, but some girls flirt with every guy that come their way. It's really your own opinion. How well do you know this girl? Do you trust her? More likely than not, she's totally crazy for you. Plus, you're being loyal, right?
2007-01-01 22:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kizzzatie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on her. it doesn't matter how far away you are to one another if she loves you she will be faithful. No matter what that is how simple it is. Ask her what they talk about not to seem like a jealous bf but just to make conversation. Make good comments about it so that she can see that you are fine with it. This way she won't feel like you are just trying to see if she is cheating on you. Trust is very important in a relationship if you don't have it then their is no relationship.
2007-01-01 22:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a bad experience in a long distance relationship so I dont fool with them.....I think you should find someone within town to talk to because your gf could be doing God Knows What in the town she's in!!!
2007-01-01 22:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by J.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust her until she gives you a reason not to assumptions a never good. But if deep down you feel she is not being faithful be wary don't just jump into confrontation without facts. I hope this helps but in the end its about your own personal choices.
2007-01-01 22:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Viva La Vida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that guys don't understand about girls - if you are the one the girl wants to be with, no other guy will matter to her. The trick is to find out if she's truthful when she says that you are the one she wants to be with.
2007-01-01 22:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Phrosty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER, tell her your concerns and any experience you have had will any unfaithfulness. If she thinks you are to clingy or emotional, then forget her. What type of girl doesn't want a cute, sensitive boyfriend?
2007-01-01 22:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by karma121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I cared about him and really wanted to have something w/him I would. Are you douting her loyalty to you? Ask her what she wants and see what she says, if she is quick to answer she is usually telling you what you want to hear, if she thinks about the question you will get the truth. good luck
2007-01-01 22:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by turtledove264 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this to me is a little hard to say . If you care for her then you be nice . You will know one day if it ever happens because it comes around .
2007-01-01 22:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋