i met this new guy with my friend a couple of weeks ago. hes really nice and stuff and i just want someone to hang with and maybe have something more? hes cute and really flirty but a couple of nights ago he hooked up with this girl that goes to his school when he was drunk. i dont really know what to think. i love talking to him because hes so funny and nice. ive only hung out with him twice but he keeps saying that when he gets back in town he wants to hang out. what is he saying? does he just like to hang out with me or anything else? thanks in advance!
2007-01-01 14:11:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he wants to hang with you when he comes to your town, but when he's at school he may be a little devilish. Trust me(even though you don't know me!), there are guys who can convince you that you will be the only one, when they will get as much as possible on the side. Not all but some are like that. It sounds like he might be. Getting drunk and hooking up is no accident. Be careful. Besides, there are lots of funny and nice guys out there. Good luck........however you decide.
2007-01-01 14:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bickle4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. Being drunk is no good excuse, if he really was drunk (I'd believe she was more than I'd believe he was). Even when drunk, you still have some control over what you're doing.
Being flirty, nice, and funny is what a player is all about, so they can talk/con you into getting into bed with them. This doesn't mean all guys that are doing this are players, but usually a good sign to keep an eye out on them.
Forget about this guy and keep looking, there are better guys out there. Try to find one that doesn't go out and get drunk much, getting drunk a lot is a bad thing and shows immaturity and low self control, which will lead to bigger problems in the future.
2007-01-01 22:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mark B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well he is not a good guy so far... even though you like him and whatever dont go for a guy who drinks... and even if that wasnt a problem a guy who makes stupid decisions while hes drunk? im sorry but that is not the right guy for you! you can find someone better and him saying he wants to hang out? i guess you could hang out for fun but do not turn it into something more
2007-01-01 22:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very promising though becos he seems like he is looking for fun only. Don't get your hopes too high. If he has hook up with another girl and still want to try to hook up with you, he does not seem that sincere though.. but you should be th judge of it. Look closely at this character and decide whether he can be your faithful partner
2007-01-01 22:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hooked up, drunk? Read again what you typed, and see how silly this looks. Leave that one alone, he put you on the shelf because you did not put out. He will keep you strung along until he gets what he wants, and/ or dump you.
2007-01-01 22:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too soon to tell. He may just be a player looking for someone to hang with whenever he's in town. Keep searching.
2007-01-01 22:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its to soon to tell because you only hung out twise dosent mean that he is youre boyfriend but he might only think of you as a friend who is a girl other then youre girlfriend so just give it some time and his will work out as the world wants it to
2007-01-01 22:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Does♥He♥Love♥Me♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really a nice guy......he only wants to hang out. But trust your instincts, you can tell when he only wants to hook up.
2007-01-01 22:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy by the looks of it jus wants to have fun without being in a committed relation.... if u r lookin for a committed thing.... then 4get it.... he is not into it....he might jus sleep wid u n wil 4get u the next morning ..... if dat is fine wid u.... then follow ur heart....
2007-01-01 22:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rachna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me thinks ... Hang back and let things gel! He sounds like a player to me, but after 700 years, what do I know?
Just, MHO!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2007-01-01 22:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋