y is it dat guys dont tell U how they feel about u, but they tell EVERYBODY else!? then, when we c each other he's always starin in2 my eyes, starin when he doesnt know im watchin. even when we're in in da bed 2gether doin u know wat, he'll stare in2 my eyes 4 a few mins! but then he acts mean 2 me sumtimes! wats wrong w/him?!
2007-01-01 14:11:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys dont like being perceived as sensitve. So when he does those things such as being mean infront of his friends and being sweet behind doors, he just doesn't want his boys to know he's feeling you like that. Once he knows that you will keep his secrets and he can trust you he will stop being like that. Trust me, hope everything works out!
2007-01-01 14:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why cause i always do,and i find that it tends to get taken in a way that i didnt intend it to , not alway but when it does it gets totally blown out of poportion and i end up feeling bad for what i said when it was intended to be affectionate.
2007-01-01 14:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by blackd010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true some guys dont like to show their emotions, i myself used to be one like that, until i met the woman of my dreama but i couldnt tell her that she is the love of my life until a whole 8 months have passed, the reason for this is believe it or not but guys are shy, they are scared and this may sound stupid but sometimes guys like me would feel gay if they expresed their emotions as guys dont do it often, i myself now changed and i tell me gf i love her, tell her she is gorgeus and reasure her whenever she is insecure about anything nd never leave her side because i love her, if your guy loves you he will show it to you but if he is scared you will need to reasure him that you will not think any less of him if he is sensetive and reasure him that you would actualy like that, and one more thing, comunication is the top priority in the relationship, sure i now know how you feel about him doing things like that, but does he know?
2007-01-01 14:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bozza b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i wish you would get to know the english language. second, that's the way we are. the trick is not so much the looks or the words spoken but the deeds done. does he treat you nice? if he does, he likes you.
2007-01-01 14:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by johnmiriani@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a young guy and insecure.
He's trying to "tell" you without actually telling you.
When you get older, guys will go up to you, compliment you, Talk to you, and literally tell you what they want to do to you.
2007-01-01 14:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want you to try to figure out what they are thinking. So, they dont show how they feel. They like you if they dont show their emotions. They want you to get to know him better and to hang out more. Then he will.
2007-01-01 14:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Brittneyyyyyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god he loves you and most guys dont want girls to know that they are relly sencitive so they try to act all mocho he tellz his friends cuse they know how dum the guy acts and he is scared that you will treat him difrent you get it and if you dont i'll explain better if you im me okay best of luck to you
2007-01-01 14:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea but i do know that i open up to my lady more than anyone else --- i need her to know how i feel and how i feel about her
maybe (im sorry to say) he is only after the sex
2007-01-01 14:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly.... he probably isnt that in to you.. i dont mean to be mean but if he was into you he would tell you how he felt about you.. cause trust me my boyfriend tells me all the time how he really feels about me and if your boyfriend aint tellin you then he probably isnt as in to you as you think
2007-01-01 14:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, guys are like that, i think it is an ego thing. they say women are hard to figure out well so ar e they.
2007-01-01 14:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋