Okay, I know the basics, finding the right time saying the right thing ect. But there are some movie logistics I'm not quite sure of. This girl has been flirting with me for a while and I want to ask her out to the cinema, but I have a few questions.
1. Should I buy tickets ahead of time? That way I could say "Hey, I have 2 tickets to XXXXX, would you like to come with me?" But then she wouldn't be able to change the time or movie?
2. Should I suggest a specific film and time, or try and work it out with her?
3. Should I give her a ride or meet her there? I heard its gentlemen like to give ladies a ride, but my car really sucks so its kind of embarrassing for me.
4. Should I buy her popcorn or snacks? Or do girls get all wieght concerned when you try to buy them food? (sorry, but I don't have much dating experiance) Should I smuggle something in from the outside?
5. What kind of film should I see? That "Happily Never After" film is coming up, and it looks alright? Good choice?
2007-01-01 14:08:39 · 8 answers · asked by Texas Toast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks so much for your help.
2007-01-01 14:08:52 · update #1
I'm having the same issues, but maybe by helping you out it'll help me out somehow.
1. Buy tickets when you get there. Even if there's a line, I guess you two could talk about each other. Let her pick the movie, even if you've seen it or you don't want to see it. You want to impress her.
2. Just work out a time frame.
3. Yeah you should probably give her a ride. Just clean your car and make it smell nice. Do you really want to go with someone who will dump you because you don't have the best car?
4. Offer for snacks, and do not smuggle. If she doesn't want any, then you don't want any either.
5. Let her choose. Maybe she'll like "Happy Feet" because she might think "the penguins are sooo cute!" I heard it wasn't that great of a movie though, but maybe she really likes penguins.
I hope this helps, it's helping me a little bit.
2007-01-02 18:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by DaClint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't buy the tickets ahead of time. Get her input about which movie to see.
2. Ask her for a specific day and range of time but not a specific movie.
3. For a first date? Take the "going home with someone" pressure out and meet her there.
4. DO NOT SMUGGLE THINGS FROM THE OUTSIDE (unless she happens to suggest it first). Buy all of the food and the tickets, you're asking HER on a date, it's the polite thing to do.
5. For the third time, talk to her about what movie to see. Only offer a day and range of time.
2007-01-01 14:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2. try to work it out with her... on the first date try to let her choose what movie so want to watch. Pick a theater... print out all the times and movies and let her pick which one she wants.
3. You should always drive her there even though it sucks. Just say, "I'm sorry the car is such a mess but I couldn't possiblely let you drive there."
4. Don't smuggle anything inside. it just shows the girl how cheap you are on the first date. if you're trying to save money just ask if she wants something to eat and maybe share a big popcorn and a drink.
5. Let her choose and if you really want to see that movie... just suggest that movie by saying, "I heard the new movie Happily Never After". Have you heard of it?" and if she says no. Then just tell her what's it's about and make it interesting enough for her to want to see it with you.
2007-01-01 14:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by mksangelgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. don't buy the tickets ask her on a date first ...
2.after asking her on a date to the movies tell her what movie she wants to see...then tell her that is a date on either sat. of frid. and you put the time and see what she says...
3. give her a ride the car won't matter to her as long as you have a flower (one) nice one like a Lilli or sunflower, and tell her is for her... say: sorry i didn't get you a red rose but, your worth more to have something that every body has...
4. open the door for her
5. yes buy her what ever she wants...
6. if she chose a nice romantic movie when ever something sweet happens hold her hand at fir ts then snuggle if you like... tell her if she's cold offer your jacket..(make shure you take a warm shirt so you wont be cold)
7. try to relax and things and opportunities will come to you
2007-01-01 14:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) no dont buy tickets ahead of time. she may not want to see that movie or may not be able to go at that time. just say 'hey i was thinking about seeing a movie this weekend and wondered if youd like to go with me'
2) work around her schedule. see what times are good for her.
3) ask if you can pick her up. if its embarassing, make a joke out of it. if she says she'd like to go offer to pick her up in you 'tricked out whip' or something that she might find funny.
4) always offer to buy snacks. girls love to eat. dont smuggle stuff in, this makes you look cheap.
5) girls love chick flicks. see if theres anything she would like to see but say you saw something for happily never after and you think it looked pretty good. girls like when guys are confident and can make decisions.
just have fun and be yourself. make sure she has a good time. good luck.
2007-01-01 14:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. and 2. I would ask her what she wants to see and when a good time is for her to go
3. I would ask her if she needs a ride
4. in a random conversation on the phone or something and ask her what her favorite type of candy and junk food is and than bring it or buy it there and than she will be like wow you remembered or something
5. depends on what you and her like
I hope this helps
2007-01-01 14:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it ability like dude she's gonna be at Disneyland! And the Gahh as in GOSH. So of course she would be able to't flow.. tell her nicely perchance once you come again. positioned a query mark after that! appropriate of success (:
2016-12-11 20:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her and then go wait in line and buy the tix..then ask her wat she wants to see..if she likes u...shell like u for who u are not ure car...ask her if she wants anything at the snack bar...
good luck :)
2007-01-01 14:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋