Me and my bf Josh have been dating for 1month and 4 days.I lost my virginity to him 1 week into the relationship.We havent been getting along ALOT sense then.And btw me and him was friends bout a couple of months before we went out.ive constantly heard about him doing some stuff with girls while we were going out.And he even admitted to me bout 2 weeks ago that he let some girl lick his tongue ring.I was like a lil mad but didnt break up with him.And i basically lost my best friend because of him.Which i know i was a STUPID thing to do.Well i havent talked to him in about 2 days and before the other day we havent talked for bout a week due to Christmas break.Well i just logged on to Messenger on MSN and he sent me and offline messege saying'WE NEED TO TALK,I KANT DO THIS ANYMORE' So thats basically breaking up with me or he's going to the next time we talk which should be tomorrow.But my question is.Im like wanting to cry my eyes out one moment but i really dont care another moment.so?
2007-01-01 14:05:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are really in love with him. Despite the bad times you dealt with him. There's no arguing with you saying that you do love him. Its no other way to put it.
2007-01-01 14:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have held on to your virginity way longer than a week. It sounds like you gave away something so special to a jerk. I don't think you're in love and he isn't in love with you either. You just really liked him. Next time get to know someone before having sex. You're worth the wait. Don't ever let someone tell you different.
2007-01-01 22:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it.. but you are crying your eyes out not because he is "the one" but because you gave him a most sacred part of yourself that you can never get back : your virginity. you have a soul tie with him. I can't imagine how painful it must be. That is why it is best to wait until you are married and that person deserves your vulnerability, your trust , your heart and your body.
if you are to have any good come out of this, i would advise cutting off contact with him. if you don't, the hole in your heart will continue to get deeper and you will find it near impossible to turn back. please take my warning. having sex with him, opened up the floodgates for so many potentially bad outcomes if you stay: pregnancy, std's, a broken heart, getting cheated on, etc.
i wish you the best. stay strong and keep walking.
2007-01-01 22:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you wait until you turn 18 before you start banging everyone you think you "love" and is "in love" with you.
Sorry, boys aren't into love until MUCH later... like 25 or so, with exceptions for older adn younger guys.
Move on, trust me, girls are in control of the dating game, you LET us be with you, we have to earn it. Just don't give it up again unless ur more sure of his intentions.
2007-01-01 22:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he is a player. He used you to get what he wanted and now he is moving on to his next victim. Sorry he had to lie to you to get it but, you won't be the first or the last he will lie to.
Get him out of your life and stay single for a while. Get your feelings sorted out it, doesn't sound like love to me, only lust. Just stay single figure things out and then you will ready for true love and not be bitter.
2007-01-01 22:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there will be a hundred more boyfriends before you find the right one. Be safe, don't just have sex with a boy bc he wants to. Think of your body as a temple, one that boys must gain admittance to by showing you respect and truth. No, you are not in love with this boy. You have to love yourself before you can truly love another.
2007-01-01 22:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by deep_hearted_empath 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably just crying your eyes out because he betrayed you and not because you love him and want him back. Even if you did love him, I'd tell you to stop because he's OBVIOUSLY not deserving of that kind of affection.
2007-01-01 22:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its sound like you arent in love.you might just be more upset than your other boyfriends cause u lost ur virginity to him but from the sounds of it...HES AN ******* ANYWAYS!
u deserve better
x x x
2007-01-01 22:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Maria m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking is the best solution regardless the out come you'll never know what is on his mind until you talk it sounds like your confused too so let him know what you feel and he will do the same and then you will know where this relationship is going
good luck
2007-01-01 22:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by jane_queen_of_jungle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry the guy just wanted sex get rid of the loser and just say no in future if the guy is serious he will keep coming back
2007-01-01 22:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋